I've lost the baby

Sending all my love to you x

I am so sorry for your loss. There are few words. hugs to you.

So sorry for your loss xxx

Oh my God 3boys, sorry hun I only saw this now. I feel so sorry, just can't believe it, my heart goes to you sweetie. Just can't find the words to say how much I'm sorry for this :( This is all so unfair.

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Thank you so much everyone. The hospital dont know if they can fit me in for a D&C this side of Christmas. Which means I've got to potentially miscarry naturally on Christmas day (can you imagin how horrendous) and the worse part is I look pregnant so I've got to suffer looking and feeling pregnant while everyone else celebrates. I can't believe this has happened twice in a row I feel like there is something wrong with me. Apparently they will not test the baby Until you've had three miscarriages so I will never know why he's heart just suddenly stopped. He looked just perfect last week. I just wish I had of been grateful for him instead of being so selfish about the fact he was a boy! I feel like a monster and the worse mother in the world. I look at my three boys and I feel like I have betrayed them also. I can't stop crying and I know I don't belong here on this due date group now :(

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So sorry about this :( I hope they will manage to fit you in before Christmas, this is such a sad time and seeing everyone celebrates won't help. Will be praying for you sweetie so that your miscarriage won't be painful. So sorry you won't be knowing why the baby's heart stopped beating suddenly. Don't feel bad about yourself sweetie, this def has nothing to do with you not being grateful for a boy, if it happened it was meant to be. I'm sure you love your little kids so much, it is only natural that we want a specific gender, everyone is allowed to dream. I wish I could do something to help :(

I am just now seeing this. I am so sorry, 3boys. What a horrible, horrible thing to happen, and at 13 weeks! And right before Christmas, too. Big hugs, and please don't be hard on yourself.

I can't thank everybody enough for there kind words and support. I am hanging on in there. My family especially my husband have been so great through all this.

I was quite shocked when they asked me today If I wanted to see him after theyve cleaned him up and for them to take pictures. Did I want him blessed? I didn't realise they did this for a 13 weeker.

I'm so sorry sweety :sad: ....gosh 2012 has been so hard on so many....I'm just glad this year is going to be over soon....You and your family are in my prayers....

I am so so sorry! You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Hello,
I understand completely how you feel. I just found out at my 12 week us that there was no heartbeat and had no option but a d & c, since my body was still doubling hcg and the baby had been dead for 4 weeks. I am devastated and understand what you're going through. You're not alone, it's VERY tough, and if you need anything , I'm here for you.

Once again thank you so much everyone.

I'm so sorry. Sending lots of love and praying for you. xxx

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I'm so sorry. Sending lots of love and praying for you. xxx

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You too sweetie you too xx

Bless you. I can't imagine your pain and I'm so sorry.

3Boys, I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. :sad: Absolutely heartbreaking! :broken: I can't even imagine it.
May the Lord sustain you and your sweet family during this time and may your love and energy for each other help you get through the holiday! I wish I could offer more comforting words.

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3boys, I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you at this time. I hope you are doing OK and feeling some what better. I am sure it will take time and we are all here for you. Lots of hugs to you at this time.

Hey hunny how you feeling today ? xxx