TTC5, so impressed with your ph! Nice job! FX for you this coming month!
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TTC5, so impressed with your ph! Nice job! FX for you this coming month!
Thanks everyone for thinking of me. It is much appreciated as we arent telling anyone what happened. Everyone thinks we are done kids as it is easier that way rather than having everyone asking when we are having another one.
I am so sad and angry that this keeps happening. I am so cautious when I am pregnant and took it easy all last week hoping it would help. no such luck. i see patients all the time who drink and smoke all the way through (I have colleagues who are nurses who do it too), and their babies are fine. It is beyond frusturating. My dh is really angry as well. He hates seeing me like this and told me last night i havent been the same for over a year now. He is so sweet and said he would take all my pain for me if he could. I am just at a loss at what to do now?
Princess, we very much feel the same way about the losses. I also get frustrated when I see much less healthy and caring pregnant mothers have healthy babies. It's just so hard when there are no answers as to why, and nothing you can "fix" for the next try. My DH has said the same to me, that I have been different this past year, and I know I have, life is more sad and fragile to me now (not to mention I've become fat!). You know, for me, the only hope I have is that someday we may have a little miracle baby, and I just have to give it more time. We need to try naturally for another year, and after that, we'll decide to continue on or scrap it. Like I said before, I have met SO many women who had a ton of m/c sprinkled in with healthy babies. There is no reason for it sometimes, it's just the nature of the human body.....sometimes the beans just don't make it. Sometimes they are abnormal, sometimes there is just a tiny glitch that you or no doctor could have ever known about and something goes awry. It happens so frequently, like 1/2 the time, I believe. Anyway, I know you are like me.....I WANT another one. Maybe a break would be good, or maybe just keep going with it? You never know, maybe your next little fertilized bean will make it. That's just how I have to look at it. I hope you are ok, thinking about you.....xxxoooo
Oh, and i had heard it helps shorten long cycles on IG.Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
Definitely did NOT have that effect for me! And it's expensive.Quote:
Originally Posted by cemas
It was EB eggs and ph was 8.8Quote:
Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children
was...size 8 now!:worry:Quote:
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hey girls! Hope everyone is fine! Big hugs!
Um, I was a size 6 before, now a size 12!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Welcome to the 12's Lola and MFC! Stinks, doesn't it? I would be happy at an 8 if I can ever get there again.
Is anyone giving their DH Ginsing? Is it boy friendly? I have been giving it to DH but I am not sure if I should be...
I love dressing mine too. My cousin owns a Gymboree Play and Music and gets practically all of her kids' clothes from Gymboree - and we get the hand-me-downs. Most of them look basically brand new!Quote:
Originally Posted by iluvmyman
I also really like sewing dresses for my girls - they look so cute matching :)
Oh right, and what is this meant to help with?Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
Thanks Lola! Thinking of trying Nov/Dec :)Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
I wish I had the answer for you :( xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxQuote:
Originally Posted by princessap
I'm not, what does it help with?Quote:
Originally Posted by Hobbermittens
I think male fertility? Not sure, I jus saw it on a thread somewhere and added it, but now I am not sure if I should have. Maybe I will pull it.
Maybe take a look through the sway section see who else added it too? I think I have seen others add it actually :)
okay ladies i have a question....I had a beta done monday and was 39 and was told i am miscarrying....I had two episodes spotting tuesday on wiping only and have had nothing since! when can i expect af to arrive? I posted on the loss board too but no replies. thanks
How far along were you with the 39? That would be a HCG level around 15 days past ovulation or so based on what I know with HT betas. You might need to have it redone so you can either follow it down to zero or see if it goes the other way. Either way, you need to know and you won't get AF until it goes to zero.
How far along should you have been on Monday hun?Quote:
Originally Posted by princessap
Yes It's False Unicorn Root.Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
FUR helps regulate the cycle/ovulation and is alkalinizing and helps produce EWCM. I think this supplement helped me before.
Too expensive!!Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
Thanks Flava. I used them before and I will get the same eggs soon.Quote:
Originally Posted by Flava
I've read korean ginseng boosts sperm production and raises testosterone levels.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hobbermittens
How's everyone here? Hope you're all doing well ...
Do you ladies think it is too late to order Fertilte CM and FUR now? (I'm on CD12) I don't think my ovulation is close at all. Like always LATE! OR I should wait for next cycle if it didn't work out this cycle.
I'd wait till next cycle :) But FX you don't need to ;)
It has been a bit slow on here...
princess: So, you only had spotting for 1-2 days? I agree with everyone, get another beta. Or at about 6-7 wks, if nothig has happened get an u/s. With DD2 I started spotting @ 5wks (I had already had 3 miscarriages), so I just knew I had lost another baby. I only spotted for 2 days (and had 1 big gush...sorry tmi), so the doc ask me to come in when I was almost 7wks. The wait was aweful, then on the u/s there was a healthy little bean with a h/b. There also was another smaller bean with no h/b, so that was why I had the spotting, I was m/c the twin. After that it was a normal pregnancy. Keep us updated....fx.
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Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children
I would wait until next cycle....if there is one :) When do you expect to O?
My cycle has been all off. I had tons of + opk and my temps have been so up and down (I have not put them into FF yet, they just looked so weird). Then FINALLY, I got my second high temp in a row today.....hopfully I finally Oed on cd 18. I think it is because of the chemical I had last month
Ditto for me too :((Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
Hobbermittens - I took ginsing and so did DH. We took it with our last sway too. It's supposed to increase testosterone.
MFC, I'd wait till next cycle also, just see what happens now. I don't think a supp works unless you take it for a week or two at least, but I could be wrong.
It has been a bit slow on here....I guess the preggos have moved on, which is understandable.
WP, how are you feeling? I am CD20 today also, 7dpo. Of course, not holding out any hope any more, just trying to be chill about it all.
I am so disgusted with how much weight I've gained, it's like I look like a totally different person now. Every time I look in the mirror, I am freaked out. I think this drive for a boy, this belief in swaying, has kept me ok with it for a long time, and I just told myself that someday when I have my son, I will think it was all worth it to let my body totally change for a year or so. But now, I can't do it anymore. Heck, I'd be happy to have a girl at this point, any baby as long as it was human! So, I have been torturing myself with the girl diet now, LOL.....shrinking my stomach back to regular capacity and teaching my body to have 1/2 the food it is used to is HARD! I'm starving!
I had heard that also. It's an ingredient in my DH's super sperm vitamins.Quote:
Originally Posted by Foxy
Hun, I think it takes a while to work? Like 3 months to get the full effect? Someone correct me if I'm wrong. I used it for 2 months last time before my attempt.Quote:
Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children
Foxy, I think the Fcm can take anywhere from a month to more, you are right. I noticed nothing but my cm DRY UP when I took it back in my early days of swaying like a million years ago!
You go girl!!! You will feel so much better about the situation if you loss a bit of weight. Like you said, a healthy baby is the goal. At least a slimmer waistline will make you like the mirror again. Maybe you should slowly wean yourself off food. Are you still using your fertility cookbook?Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
I am getting a new exercise system soon, The Firm Express. The cardio is less than 20 mins, so it should be boy friendly, and you do it with weghts. The scale seems to be going up again, so I have to do something. DH is not up for new clothes unless they are maternity and I only have one pair of jeans that fit as it is....and they are tight. I have boxes of smaller clothes though :( Blah. At least I think I am in the 2WW, though. Might not be the best time for me to change everything....hmmm.
How much?Quote:
Originally Posted by Foxy
You could always try the Atkins... I don't know how pregnancy friendly it is, but it works--and fast!Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
WP. I hope you are in the 2WW now! When can you test?
Hey girls, Well I am officially out...passed the little bean this morning....saw it and knew right away...it was preceeded by really bad cramps and heavy bleeding....so sad....I won't be back on here anymore...good luck to all! I hope we all end up with another little one soon! take care
Im here! But really now it's like what to do? No more sup taking , drink counting ect ect. I log on every day a little bit but ttc blue grads are slow , and I don't want to post all about preggo stuff and Q. here because I don't want to hurt no one.
Also still scared from m/c here...
Lola I hope for your bfp and WP too !
princess Im so very sorry!!XXXXXX