Originally Posted by
jenc8060
Hey girls! Feeling sort of bummed/confused. This is my third cycle on Clomid and we BD twice, at what I thought was O-1 (laid down for 20 mins after BD) and O-3 (J&D). However, I can't confirm if I ever even ovulated as my temps have been ALL over the place this month due to work travel and waking up 3-4 hours earlier than normal. SO annoying.
I got 3 high days, then 4 peak days?!? Normally it's only 2 of each. I had EWCM throughout all 4 peak days and my last high day which seems bizarre to me. I think I might have ovulated yesterday (but could have been today too?), which is a day (or 2) later than it should have been but who knows. I had to leave for a work trip the day after we had our last attempt so I couldn't even try for another attempt :-/ So frustrated! Last month I got pregnant (chemical) with 1 attempt at positive OPK, which was O-1 (confirmed via temps). So our attempt this month was either O-2 or O-3, which makes me SO nervous being on the Clomid. I really would have preferred O-1!
I am feeling so discouraged. I've been doing LE and daily exercise for over 7 months and I am just so over it all. With this being my third month on Clomid plus having had a chemical last month I was really hoping this would be our month. I know only time will tell of course but not feeling too positive at the moment.
I made the mistake of telling DH that I think I ovulated late and he was not happy. The first thing out of his mouth was that we should have had more attempts!! (he's been saying that for months now as he does NOT like this swaying stuff even though we had a chemical on 1 attempt last month!). If we don't get pregnant this round I am going to have to play it very careful next month around what I communicate to him about my ovulation timing as I know he will be insistent at that point that we have more than 2 attempts. UGH.
Anyway, thanks for reading my vent. I am so thankful that we have one another to talk to as I would otherwise feel so alone in this process!