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Back in 2015 I got down to a bmi of 21 from approx 23 so it's definately doable and I sat just before the middle range of what's healthly. So at my lowest weight I was 62kg bmi 21 and the healthy weight range for my height was 54.5kg - 74kg. I preferred to be around the 64-66kg though and geez I wish I was there now [emoji23] Not sure if that's any help?
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Oh and no I wouldn't wait until its lower. If you'll have been on the le diet for 12+ weeks when it comes to ttc august start ttc regardless of weight as you may not conceive the first couple cycles so its always good to have that little bit of weight as a buffer.
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Sorry to be a bother about this subject but how is e4d girl sway? I mean doesn't it put dh in boy zone territory sperm coutn- wise? I understand sperm shouldn't be living passed 3 days inside us during a girl sway but doesn't the closeness of std put the sperm count higher?
I have this weird nervous horny energy today! I cannot shake it.
Agh!!!
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Raisinggentlemen e4d is simply a bd pattern that pink swayers start using if one attempt at pos opk (which is always recommended at the beginning) doesn't work. E4d 96 hour version leans more pink but has lower conception odds and e4d 72 hour version has slightly less pink but bwtter conception odds. Then if that fails its time for e4d plus extra attempt at pos opk. The additional bding exposes our bodies to swimmers more frequently which means our bodies reaction to those sperm 'invaders' softens over time and is less severe giving the swimmers a better chance to reach where they need to go before the egg releases. Because sperm has a lesser life span in a hostile environment doing e4d either version is basically the equivalent of one attempt in the fertile window that *counts*. Let me know if I haven't answered exactly what you're asking [emoji4] sometimes my perception of what is being asked and what has been asked is skewed [emoji12]
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Oh and eod (every 48 hours) is maximum sperm health for dh which is why bding eod through fertile window sways blue.
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That's awesome emshe!! Use that energy to your advantage! You may very well be on the cusp of oing!Quote:
Originally Posted by emshe
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I think so. Just had the real pressure pain over the last hour, so may have happened & hubby has only just left The office. 2 hours away, will be true to e4d schedule of 10pm I guess.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
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Always a good indicator!! Best of luck! So excited for you!!Quote:
Originally Posted by emshe
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It doesn't feel like long ago at all does it pbn!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
Well after my big dilemma yesterday DH and I had a very unplanned date night last night leading to a few glasses of vino (not a great idea when I'm finishing penicillin!!!!) And one thing lead to another and....yup, we had an attempt last night. Not that I can really remember it lol! I'll see how I'm feeling about attempts later in the week. I'm kinda thinking I've been so laid back up til now I shouldn't ruin it with my OCD now haha! We'll either dtd Sat or Sun. Whenever we can fit it in. Definitely proves a lot harder when there's 3 small ones around!
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Take full advantage of those feelings. Its your body's way of saying "Put a baby in me!"'Quote:
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I have no idea how you fit it in at all. With just my one and DH and I both working 40-60 hours/week... its a struggle...enjoyable struggle, but a struggle.Quote:
Originally Posted by hopper
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Good luck emshe:luck:
Sorry for bad news Star:(
Thanks girls. Trying to keep my head up. Next month we go on vacation so unless my period comes really early or really late, we will have to skip next month too. Urgh. I got my actual results online today (yesterday they were over the phone) and everything is improving significantly so maybe these couple months off will result in no cysts what so ever and it'll give us the best chances. [emoji120]🤞
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Praying for you, emshe!!
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I love spontaneous nights like you described. For long journeys it gets tiring and its hard to actually enjoy it. Glad you had a good time (from what you could remember) :)Quote:
Originally Posted by hopper
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Not had time to read through all the posts yet but just wondering if you’ve tested yet Noemi?
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Thank you pbn3! That makes sense. I have never heard of e4d before so it was confusing. The only thing that wasn't answered (I think)- doesn't e4d increase dh sperm count? We are striving to lower his sperm count, right?Quote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
Haha I have no idea either. Tho I've reduced my working hours and do a lot of them from home since having DS3. Which at times proves very freaking hard but my boss is really really accommodating so I can't complain!Quote:
Originally Posted by HGmama
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It was possibly the most laid back, random night of ttc we have ever had!! Would be hilarious if it ended up being the one that worked!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Star4012
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Many of us got pink success with e4d including me :)Quote:
Originally Posted by RaisingGentlemen3
Noemi & heart desires, how r u guys?
Emshe that is some nice energy to have!!!
Star, sorry to hear about those cysts but such good news about the significant improvements! I pray that continues.
Mummy thx for asking:bighug:Yes i tested and bfn:( im very sad and i lost my last hope.
It's 12 dpo and BFN ladies! I tried with Frer on FMU. Temps have not dropped too much, so I'm holding out on a shred of hope!
This is actually day 45 of an unusually long cycle! I don't even know when my period will be expected. Sort of in limbo.
But I read that 8-10 Dpo is the common period for implantation, and hcg levels are detected 2-3 days after implantation, using the early tests. Based on that pattern, I'm losing faith that I will be pregnant this cycle! I think most people here get a BFP by 12dpo. My symptoms of sore boobs etc are infact fading away!
Anyway, one can only hope and speculate at this point :)
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Jgojah thx u, im not happy, better not test anymore. How r u?
Noemi, did you test? FX for you to get your Bfp!
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Mummy and u how r u? Sorry im lost which cd or dpo are u?
Thanks for checking. 12 dpo and stark BFN! I'm bracing for AF. I don't even feel pregnant anymore. I hate the anticipation followed by disappointment. I should just give up testing and get my answer through 'here's AF', or well, 'no AF and hey I have morning sickness' :-) easier said than done, clearly.Quote:
Originally Posted by jgojah
What's going on with you? Your test from 12dpo actually showed a faint shadow of a line, that a couple of us caught. Anything further?
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Hdp bfn:( it is not nice right? Im sorry for u too:( i expect af on Saturday 12dpo.
Good luck emshe! That's a good sign that your body is totally ready to do its job! Go channel that energy into catching the egg! This could really be your month. FX for you and baby dust!Quote:
Originally Posted by emshe
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Sorry :( I was hoping one of us gals would have good news. But hey, let's not surrender until AF arrives! Here's to praying and hoping!Quote:
Originally Posted by Noemi2017
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Hdp i have the same feeling. I wont test anymore, too much disappointment, i dont want to see bfn anymore:(
Sorry star! I know this isn't good news at all, but take the time to get your body ready and set to go, for when you can grow your happy healthy bean!Quote:
Originally Posted by Star4012
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Congrats on your dd! Do you have a lining to your sway? I'm just very confused on how e4d sways pink when I thought sperm count needed to be lower for pink sway and this wpuld be boy zone. I guess this site focuses more on one attempt than sperm count? Sorry if I am annoying you all! My attempt is coming up next week (I hope) and I plan on doing e7d but I worry I will miss o bc I don't know when I will O since I just came off bcp. I'm using opks of course but hard to time abstaining with that, ya know?Quote:
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Oh guys :broken:Quote:
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Yes the bfn are so tough. And I know noemi has been trying for a while now :(
How long have you been trying hdp?
This is only month three for me and it's driving me nuts!! Especially as with both boys I got preg first month using femara. This cycle especially has left me speechless because I even mirrored our exact bd pattern in hopes of repeating our successful formula, so to speak.
I got a bfn 13dpo and a temp drop. AF should be here by tonight. I'm not testing again until I miss my period (if it ever happens...i really feel so old and hopeless lol)
DH and i spoke last night and he agreed to continue but not as strict with the bd...so no "oh the opk is positive we must bd!" Lol
We will try for e4d pattern, which to be honest i'm not very hopeful for because we did that last cycle and I just don't think it's for us and I feel like taking femara and doing opks will be a waste. So next cycle will just be reeeeally laid back
Sure here’s the link https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...-its-girl.htmlQuote:
Originally Posted by RaisingGentlemen3
Just to add I did do one attempt for 3 months but didn’t get pregnant so moved on to e4d!
So sorry about bfns ladies I feel your frustration with you :( but it’s not over until af arrives I’m proof of that because I had stark white bfns until 12dpo! Hoping it’s the same for you!!
Finally CD 1!! Now the real fun stuff starts
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Hi ladies!
So I'm12 dpo. This afternoon, I noticed a real quick trickle of bleeding. It came very quickly like wet CM. I assume it's AF (which is likely around the corner). But the bleeding is very light, and a bit pinkish red. I also have a lot of belly cramping!
I can't tell if this is AF or not!
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Do you have any other coupling syptoms? Nauseating, fatigue, mood swings? It could be! Especially if it's very light and has a pink or brown tint to it. Implementation bleeding can occur anywhere from 6-12 days after conceptionQuote:
Originally Posted by Heart desires pink LP
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