Did you try using the second urine for testing as wantingpink described about a week ago in this thread? It worked gor me and I got a pretty clear line. GL testing, have my fx for you.Quote:
Originally Posted by pebmcp6
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Did you try using the second urine for testing as wantingpink described about a week ago in this thread? It worked gor me and I got a pretty clear line. GL testing, have my fx for you.Quote:
Originally Posted by pebmcp6
Well another day of bfn... Still got 2 more days till af is due... On the bright side looks like I might be able to have a drink on New Year's Eve but will keep my fingers crossed for a bfp in the next 2 days
Pebmc, I see a line! It's not stick thin, so that has to be a good thing!
Can't wait for an update from you! :)
Dreamofpink, that's good news about the clomid, but hopefully you won't need it and get a bfp this month instead.
Letiha sorry you got another bfn, hoping you get a bfp soon.
Pebmcp6 did you test again this morning?
I tested this morning and it was a bfn, I'm only 8dpo though (ticker is wrong) and I've never got a bfp before 11dpo before, so still feeling hopeful.
Thanks Pangea. Finger's crossed for you!
Peb how have you got on today?
Leitha you're not out until af turns up!
Feeling really rotten today, full of cold, af cramps and a sore throat. Feel even worse as my cousin had her 1st baby today and a family friend had hers today too. So that's 3 babies born (other cousin had her second in July) in the time that we've been TTC and still no BFP. I feel like such a failure especially as eveyone's had natural births whereas I've had to have two sections due to very serious complications. Doubt I'll ever get to give birth properly. Such a pity party here today, which just makes me feel worse as I hate wallowing in self-pity. It's exacerbated by upsetting my mum this morning when she rang with the news about the babies as it's also the 9th anniversary of her Mum's death. She told me not to keep bringing it round to myself all the time and that we've been trying too hard. I just feel so so awful about everything and can't turn to anyone, friends and family must be so sick of me always failing to get a BFP each month and getting upset although I've hidden it a lot in the last few months. After all I have two healthy beautiful children whereas another cousin has a terminally ill child with a genetic disease and hasn't been able to conceive any more children through genetic therapy IVF. I should therefore 'be grateful for what I have' and I don't think my mum understands my desire for more children as she was very happy with her two girls. Please don't get me wrong I am happy for my cousin and friend, but it's been a really long hard year. I can't wait to see the back of it now! Af's a wicked witch and I could do without the usual pmt making me feel even worse.
DS1 has been giving me lots of cuddles though, he's so sensitive and knows when I'm feeling down. My children are such a blessing but I have a big space in my heart waiting to be filled by number three. I'm not about to give up on the diet but i just want to be pg now. Sorry for the rambling message but I needed to get it off my chest. Thanks for reading.
Dreamofpink I was saying similar things to my DH last night. It's only my first month trying, but it's bringing back all the memories of trying to get pregnant with DS2, and everyone else around me getting pregnant and me still not pregnant yet.
There just seems to be so many people who always get pregnant first try, including my mother who always used to say "he only has to look at me and I'm pregnant". I don't know why I haven't inherited it. I know how it gets you down month after month of BFNs.
My best who is 5 weeks pregnant got pregnant by accident. I'm so jealous I would love to get pregnant by accident! It must be amazing. But even when we are careless I never get pregnant, we have to be really trying.
With DS2 it was the month that I was really upset and despairing about it that I finally got pregnant. I was 5dpo on New Years eve and decided to get drunk because I thought I wasn't going to be pregnant, because every month I was never pregnant, but this time I was.
AF cramps could be a pregnancy sign, I really hope this is your month because you deserve it.
BFN this morning @10dpo, I think our eyes were playing tricks on us yesterday!!!!!
I am now gonna start the diet again full on and hope for a BFP before my DH birthday on the 1st March, would love to put the test in a box like northern shutterbug, his face would be priceless, he is so into thisTTC this time, I think it is because we are trying so hard for a girl!!!
He did say this morn though to calm down and relax a few things and enjoy it a bit more, it is so mechanical!!! I don't even feel like DTD in my non fertile phases, neither does he!!!
Hope you all get your BFP's!!!!!
Awh Christmas must bring it out in us, I actually had the same conversation with DH last night, My sister is sure to come to me in the new year and say, we are going to try in March and I swear she will get pregnant first time she always does, OK I did get pregnant a few times accidentally, nice accidents might I add. But when I really try to get pregnant it takes me 14/15 months!!! I started trying for this one last Feb, was gobsmacked when I got pregnant in may, only for it to end in miscarriage!!!! Hope it happens soon for us!
sorry u got a bfn it really looked lik a line there :(Quote:
Originally Posted by pebmcp6
Anothe BFN, not even a faint line - although my queasiness is increasing, i'm emotional and very tired, also getting a few twinges....just can't work out whats going on. But as i've been told its not over till AF comes.
Still using my internet cheapies, and will use another one tommorrow morning, and if no AF by Monday morning will use my first response i have under the sink so i can decide whether i'm sticking to virgin watermelon mohito's for new years eve.
Sorry u didn't get ur BFP its just torture waiting isn't it :(Quote:
Originally Posted by letiha
sending you lots of baby dust guys. xxx
Just wanted to say thanks for all the support. AF was due today but nothing, another BFN :worry:
I feel like AF is coming but i have felt like that for the past 2 days, and normally i only do for 24 hours. As much as I don't want it to come i just want to be put out of my misery a BFP or AF....
Good luck for anyone else still waiting!!!
Letiha, I hope you come out of limbo soon, I was like that last month and it was horrible. I was 2 days late before AF finally turned up and I was getting the usual sore boobs, cramps, etc but just knew I wasn't pregnant. It was a releif when AF did arrive.
But then, I've heard of quite a few people getting BFPs really late after their AF was due. I guess one reason could be because of late implantation. How long are your cycles normally? If its 28 days, you ovulated on day 16 but didn't implant until 12dpo, then a BFP would only start showing 2-3 days after AF was due.
BFN for me this morning too. I'm 10dpo (ticker is wrong) and starting to get disheartened. I'm still hoping I'll get a BFP tomorrow, as I got a BFN at 10dpo with DS2, and then a BFP at 11dpo. But I think it's probably unlikely. If I don't get a BFP tomorrow then I know I'm out.
My cycle is about 32-33 days long, AF will come 14 days post ovulation. I went and reviewed my ovulation charts today aswell and the dates all checked out...plus my tempreture is still high. Playing the waiting game.
I'm out.
Still waiting to test I'm trying it to obsess too much.... I've had Af like cramps all week! So I'm hiking I'm out.... My boobie hurt a ridiculous amount you know the pain that you get when breast milk is drying up it feels like that almost! Usually my nipples hurt a bit before Af ... My body is playing tricks on me I think.... I have been sick all week too so I havnt been able to symptom spot at all... Maybe that's a good thing
I'm sorry letiha :(
Good luck wanting-a-girl!
It looks like I'm out. BFN this morning, I've never had a BFN at 11dpo and still been pregnant. AF should arrive on Thursday or Friday.
Sorry to hear that Pangea. :(
Had my bloods done this month, happy that I'm ov'ing but prog levels had dropped quite a bit at 9dpo so guess I'm out. On cd13 af will prob arrive next year :-) ha ha! Don't do hpts as can't take the disappointment with every bfn over the last 18 months. Been referred to gynae now, appt roughly in a fortnight so if this month doesn't work, I may get clomid in time for Feb. Part of me's tempted to wait for the clomid but it's no guarantee of a quick bfp and after almost 5 months of diet I'd be pushing my luck with dh! Besides I'm only assuming that I'll get it, I may not.
Anyhoo happy new year to you all, may 2013 bring you your gd dreams!
:D
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Today Af was supposed to show and has not and instead I have ewcm?! I have been sick and I took cold medicine so my cervical fluid should have dried up right? Hmmmm I forgot to get a test so I guess I have to wait till the second