UK SMOG Wannabes ~ December

**Kell** · December 15th, 2011, 04:42 AM

Oh I forgot to mention I have my first midwife appointment next Friday! Can't wait, and should have my scan mid jan!

**Sunset** · December 15th, 2011, 05:30 AM

Good morning! I can't believe i'm here writing another "good morning post" the days just seem to fly by! it's nearly weekend!

Inglewood ~ Eugh for people taking offense at something so ridiculous. It's very understandable you would want your sons to find out first before anyone else and if they can't see that then they're just plain stupid IMO! at the end of the day your sons are your immediate family, your SIL is not. But i think it could have something to do with what Littlemisswilko mentioned, perhaps she's feeling a bit "threatened". She's not going to be the only one with the girl anymore iyswim? and the fact you're expecting identical twin girls is just even more amazing.. and lets not forget having 2 boys and twin girls, that's the perfect family make-up!!

Kell ~ I don't know yet, i'm going tomorrow morning to have my bp checked again. I'm hoping it was a one off but I doubt it. Glad to hear you're enjoying your new job and that the nausea has eased up, but i'm sorry to hear you had a big fight with your dh. I hope he starts coming around to the idea of you working soon.. you would think he would be more supportive?

GeCon ~ I too bought my spell of ebay from a lovely lady called mia-angel

Chocolate ~ sounds like a promising sign?

how long will you wait to test?

Littemisswilko ~ any MS yet?

**homebirthing princess** · December 15th, 2011, 05:47 AM

Morning ladies i hope every1 is ok?

inglewood.....has is sunk in yet that your gonna have twin girls? omg that must be an amazing feeling hun

baby mad.....so lovely when you start feeling those kicks

sunset.....hope your bp settles down x

big waves every1 else

can i ask u ladies as im now totally confused, for ttc a girl r we supposed to hav extra calcium? this forum is differnt to what ive been used to!! is the ig diet better or the LE?

xx

**Sunset** · December 15th, 2011, 05:57 AM

Homebirthingprincess ~ I really don't like to say which diet I think is "better" since I think it all comes down to personal preference. What works for one person may not work for someone else iyswim. Personally though I am more comfortable with the idea of the IG diet. I did come across the LE diet before I started swaying, but the IG diet made more sense to me so I that's what I went with. I don't judge anyone for doing the LE diet or A-gender diet or french diet or any of the other 100's of swaying diets out there, as long as you feel happy with your sway and believe in it then that's all that matters

but I know myself how confusing it is to read up about one diet and then come across another website which is the complete opposite.. it had me very frustrated there for a while before I decided to pick just one diet and go for it a 150%

**homebirthing princess** · December 15th, 2011, 06:01 AM

thanks sunset, i think your right i know all about the ig diet so im proberly better to stick to what i know, can i ask what calcium sups u took am i right in thinking solray? xx

**Inglewood** · December 15th, 2011, 06:09 AM

Morning all, on to have a quick rant......sorry!!!

Dh started work at 6am today, he phoned me at 8am saying "quick get on FB, did u say we are having girls, even by accident??" I said no and checked.... the only comment is from an ex-work collegue who is kinna 'psychic' with things saying "how lovely 2 girls"...I just took that as a guess from my scan pic?? I replied to her, "Is that what ur thinknig? not sure, ds1 wants boys, ds2 girls" That was it...I didn't confirm or say we even knew or were going to find out!

Well.....apparently my older SIL (not the above mentioned one) phoned dh at work and said, "hear it's 2 girls" dh said where did u hear that, she doesn't have fb and told him it was on FB!! The only 2 people to have Fb in his family is MIL and Dh's twin sister, so I texted them asking who told my older SIL that? The twin sister got back to me said, not her, hasn't spoken to her in wks, so it must of been my MIL who phoned her and said!! Dh is FUMING!!!! and me, as do they honestly think a friend on Fb is gonna know the sex before our own family???? (I know u guys know, but u know what I mean). This is why he can't trust his family

not to tell the boys at xmas!!! Who does my MIL think she is telling his sister before we do??? Super mad ladies this morning...can feel my blood boiling!

**chocolate** · December 15th, 2011, 06:10 AM

Hey, homebirthprincess - I was confused to start with, and basically wanted to just limit nutrients as much as possible as I think that is key so mainly ate pasta and some parmasan or rice. I think if Im not pregnant this cycle I will follow IG 100% as I did the diet 70% ish and if Im pregnant I will feel like its a boy so next time want to do 100% for my own hope really.

LMW - thats reassuring to know as ever since feeding DS1 Im sure I could get milk out if I tired. Ill prob. start testing in a few days, but have decided if its negative this month I will actually be a bit relieved and will give it 100% on the IG diet etc. next cycle or may even wait till March,or at least try for 0+12 in the meantime although I did look out for changes this time but couldnt pinpoint 0+12 by doing that so not sure.

**Kell** · December 15th, 2011, 06:17 AM

Inglewood I'm confused, I didn't realise you'd told mil they are girls? She's out of order if she was told and has gone against your wishes!

**Inglewood** · December 15th, 2011, 06:22 AM

Originally Posted by Kell

Inglewood I'm confused, I didn't realise you'd told mil they are girls? She's out of order if she was told and has gone against your wishes!

No, we haven't told her, she saw that fb guess comment and told my SIL, based on a comment!!

**chocolate** · December 15th, 2011, 06:25 AM

Originally Posted by Inglewood

Morning all, on to have a quick rant......sorry!!!

Dh started work at 6am today, he phoned me at 8am saying "quick get on FB, did u say we are having girls, even by accident??" I said no and checked.... the only comment is from an ex-work collegue who is kinna 'psychic' with things saying "how lovely 2 girls"...I just took that as a guess from my scan pic?? I replied to her, "Is that what ur thinknig? not sure, ds1 wants boys, ds2 girls" That was it...I didn't confirm or say we even knew or were going to find out!

Well.....apparently my older SIL (not the above mentioned one) phoned dh at work and said, "hear it's 2 girls" dh said where did u hear that, she doesn't have fb and told him it was on FB!! The only 2 people to have Fb in his family is MIL and Dh's twin sister, so I texted them asking who told my older SIL that? The twin sister got back to me said, not her, hasn't spoken to her in wks, so it must of been my MIL who phoned her and said!! Dh is FUMING!!!! and me, as do they honestly think a friend on Fb is gonna know the sex before our own family???? (I know u guys know, but u know what I mean). This is why he can't trust his family

not to tell the boys at xmas!!! Who does my MIL think she is telling his sister before we do??? Super mad ladies this morning...can feel my blood boiling!

So did you confirm to your MIL that they are girls? Does she know you know? Id just say no we dont know but keep guessing lol

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