Uk SMOG Wannabes ~ January

[Sunset]

Maybebaby ~ I think it's great to read how excited you are to meet the new arrival

Inglewood ~ You shouldn't feel guilty for being blessed with 2 baby girls! I can't believe the nerve of that other woman! so insensitive and it makes me cringe just thinking of how that boy mum felt when she made such a terrible comment. I think we've all been in a similar situation to that at some point
Serena is doing geat I cant believe she's 3 weeks old already and she's nearly grown out of her early baby clothes. At the moment she's wearing the outfit i bought for my sway back in january last year. I can't believe what a journey it's been!

[indigoviolet]

Welcome 6happysons

Inglewood, don't feel guilty, you deserve this and it is just lovely that you can empathise and understand how that other mum is feeling and don't go around making stupid comments. All of us on here are SO much more sensitive to other people so at least having our gender desire has made us better, more sensitive and kind people. Ifkwim.

I had a lovely coffee with maybebaby this morning! Had a good old chat and my little ds2 was relatively well behaved and let us talk (for hours!). Maybe- you look amazing by the way, NOT enormous!! I'd say blooming! Hope you had a lovely relaxing afternoon

[Babymad]

Babymad - I just came across your post kind of by accident. It made me cry. I wish things had been different. I know you will love your little boy more than anything and it will be just fine when he arrives, but I'm thinking of you right now and sending the biggest of hugs your way xx

Thanks Dreaming, means a lot. How are you doing? I hope you are all doing well xx

[Babymad]

Hi Ladies,

Babymad, I have thought about you lots and hoping ur ok? Did u tell DH? or will you wait? I can't begin to imagine how you must feel esp after conceiving ur girl thru PGD. I hope as the weeks pass things get easier. xx

Thanks Hun xx Been keeping as busy as I can to be honest, can't bear to have time to think about it all! No I haven't told DH, Im not ready to talk about it all yet and probably won't tell him.
I'm trying to be positive, looked at baby pics last night and I felt a bit better.
I know it will be a long time before I can accept never having a DD and all that goes with it so still have lots of wobbles but I'm trying xx
How are you doing? Did you sort your car out? Xx

[Babymad]

Babymad thinking of you too x I think it really does easier (if only bit by bit ) with time. When I was in gap yesterday I looked in the girl sale rail as I could see some red leggings ( I love red!) so I rummaged through and found red and blue leggings just right for a boy. All I could think was 'great these are lovely for dave!' not 'ah look at the pink top with the cat on' but I would have 13 weeks ago. But I must say next was a bit harder. I might have to veto next for a while!

Welcome six happy sons! I remember you well from
Ig. Good luck with your attempt. Seems like you are lucky too fall pg quickly x

Thanks Hun xx pleased it was easier for you. I am such a girly girl that I love anything and everything pink so I find it so hard to shop and not feel extremely sad when I see pink things everywhere!! I dont even look to be honest, last time I was in next looking at pink I started crying.....had to leg it before anyone saw me!! I will miss so much about not having a DD, it really does break my heart to think I have a lifetime without having that relationship.
What is your actual due date?? Are the boys excited? X

[Babymad]

Inglewood, hope your scan goes well
Indigo, when is your scan?
Deaks, when are you next going to Wells? I tried to book a Sun holiday for Easter but no luck! We are hoping to buy a caravan this year...long gone are our holidays abroad with four kids!!
Welcome sixhappysons, good look with swaying

Hi everyone else xx

[charlieispy]

Oh babymad (((HUG))) wish i could give you one in real life x I hope things get easier as time passes I know it will never go away but it will get easier especially when you see his beautiful face x

[littlemisswilko]

hiya girls been away for a day or two.

welcome 6happysons! great to have you hear and good luck with all the swaying malarkey!!!

lavender you asked earlier about the us preggy girls with the sickness, im still feeling yucky. i wake up every morning feeling like ive got a hangover and literally have to drag myself out of bed . just have this sick feeling all the time! hoping its all worth while!

have my first MW appointment on Thurs and hoping she's going to get me booked in for a scan! hoping because i haven't gone early to see her that it wont take longer to get my 12 weeks scan appointment!

Babymad- sending you a real big hug! hoping it gets easier for you as the time passes on!

inglewood! Yes you are definitely blessed to be having '2' girls but have every right to! your girls chose you and are lucky to have you as a mummy! So nasty of the mum to make horrid comments about the boy mum! i too hope she has a girl just to shut the other mum up. No doubt she has one of each so couldn't possibly understand what she is saying!!!

[Babymad]

Oh babymad (((HUG))) wish i could give you one in real life x I hope things get easier as time passes I know it will never go away but it will get easier especially when you see his beautiful face x

Thanks sweetie xx where are you? Promise I won't just turn up on your doorstep Wish I could stop feeling so sad all the time, everything I do seems to involve being reminded of it all over and over again....I feel like there's no escape.
How are you feeling? Are the headaches any better? I need a new pushchair too so going to try and get a bargain. X

[Babymad]

hiya girls been away for a day or two.

welcome 6happysons! great to have you hear and good luck with all the swaying malarkey!!!

lavender you asked earlier about the us preggy girls with the sickness, im still feeling yucky. i wake up every morning feeling like ive got a hangover and literally have to drag myself out of bed . just have this sick feeling all the time! hoping its all worth while!

have my first MW appointment on Thurs and hoping she's going to get me booked in for a scan! hoping because i haven't gone early to see her that it wont take longer to get my 12 weeks scan appointment!

Babymad- sending you a real big hug! hoping it gets easier for you as the time passes on!

inglewood! Yes you are definitely blessed to be having '2' girls but have every right to! your girls chose you and are lucky to have you as a mummy! So nasty of the mum to make horrid comments about the boy mum! i too hope she has a girl just to shut the other mum up. No doubt she has one of each so couldn't possibly understand what she is saying!!!

GL with your MW app Littlemiss I didn't see the MW until I was 10 weeks either and thought my scan would be late but it was bang on time so hopefully you won't have to wait too long. Hope the sickness eases soon x