To find out or not to find out?

**My Fabulous Children** · March 22nd, 2011, 12:58 AM

Originally Posted by nuthinbutpink

I think it would be fun not to find out. I do not have the willpower to not find out but it would be fun!

Same here

**boyjoy** · March 25th, 2011, 02:43 PM

I guess i can t wait until delivery. Shopping, nursery room(hope it ll be blue) etc.. Hope my dear m/s come back and i would keep worry about gender...

**LolaInLove** · March 25th, 2011, 03:31 PM

We talked about it last night and DH said he wants to learn the gender asap, and so did the big sisters, so we're finding out. Now I need to decided what giant waste of money I want to do to try to find out before that old 20 wk u/s!

**boyjoy** · March 25th, 2011, 03:54 PM

what about intelligender? If you do it right it has a high accuracy(they say)

**Aqua** · March 25th, 2011, 05:08 PM

The 3d gender scanning places charge like 100-125/- bucks. some even cheaper. My OB's office have 3d in there facility itself if I wished to have one. Undecided as of now.
Wow lola, your girls already know. They and your DH must be so excited. We are waiting till NT to tell our DD. That saves me 12 weeks of her constantly asking if the baby is coming next week..lol

Boyjoy, did you try intelligender?

**boyjoy** · March 25th, 2011, 06:18 PM

No Aqua i was just reffering to Lola.. I was skeptical at the beginning about it, but i m convinced after seeing feedbacks. Maybe i can try at 10 weeks not sure..

**LolaInLove** · March 31st, 2011, 03:29 PM

I'm SO on the fence about finding out early....except if I need a CVS, then I will obviously find out since it is 100%. We will find out at the 20 wk u/s at the latest, but now I wonder if it's going to be GOOD or BAD for my psyche to mess around with the Intelligender and really any early indicator stuff. I am even wondering if I want to know the placenta location and if I'll then begin to obsess about Ramzi theory. I just can't tell how I'll react....and I definitely don't want to freak out, I want to enjoy this last pg of mine. So, kind of on the fence about Intelligender and whatnot! There is that plasma gender test too, that you can send away for, it's like $300 (see the post about it on gender prediction forum).

**LolaInLove** · March 31st, 2011, 03:30 PM

Aqua, have you thought about any of that early stuff? You're getting up there in double digit weeks now!!!

**purplepoet20** · March 31st, 2011, 06:11 PM

With my 2 boys I had to know so I could get ready and wash the clothing. I have decided with #3 that I will ask the US Tech to type what it is, print the picture, and then I will hide it in my purse. I am going to slip it in a card for my mother-in-law and if she screams and runs around the house then I know it is a girl!

**nicnee1976** · April 4th, 2011, 08:03 AM

I chose not to find out with my 3 boys. I wanted a surprise after the hard work of labour. I was sure DS1 was a girl and funnily enough he was the only one I felt real disappointment after the birth.
I knew without doubt DS2 was a boy. I thought DS3 may have been a girl having had a very different pregnancy with him. We had a trainee sonographer scan us on one of our scans and she accidently showed the boys bits whilst trying to measure the femur. I saw it, DH didn't, but it was enough to convince me, even though I am no expert at interpreting scans. So by the time DS3 arrived, that and my gut instincts told me he was a boy and I was prepared for it.
I'm now expecting baby #4 and DH wants to find out this time, I'm not sure. Ironically I only want to know if it is going to be a boy, if it is a girl I'd like to be surprised at birth. Only no way to get around that one!!

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