TTC a BOY May Chit Chat Thread

[Flava]

POP- That's a great reading ! LOL it's so funny she says don't worry because he like fashion he is not gay ! That's good to know for sure.
Hope you get that BFP this time ! Just do lot's of BD and take it easy.

[Pearl327]

Best of luck to all you ladies TTC this month. Sending lots of Blue baby dust your way




Do I still have to wait another 5 months . The reason for our waiting is that DD may need an operation in the summer (after she is 18 months old) and we will find out on the 16th of May if she needs the op or not. So fingers crossed that we here good news in two weeks time and we can start working on making her a little brother.

[LolaInLove]

lola- any good news for DH?

Nothing yet, we may have to wait until his follow up appt on the 11th. The fertility clinic is weird about giving out test results. They said we'll have to make an appt to come in and talk with someone about them, meaning a nice fat $250 appt fee for them. I asked if that meant they were bad results because we'd have to come talk about it, and they said no, they do that with everyone. I told them just to send them to the urologist and we'd deal with them. I think my DH is going to try to call today and see if anything yet. Thanks for asking!!! I am so dying to know that count number!

[LolaInLove]

Lola, I def. agree that you need to find what makes it spicy for you! There are def. certain kind of porn that gets me more riled up, and others that I'm just like "really??" and it looks more like a weird science experiment to me.

In my early part of the preg. I was feeling totally cut off down there but since I entered my 2nd trimester it's bee nuts how much I think about it, and how my dreams are explosions of one long...you know. Just nuts. One night I dreamt the entire night about sex, even though i had to get up and go pee 3 times, I went back to bed and the dreams resumed, lol. They never involve my DH....poor him, lol.

I am the SAME way, exactly the same. I had insane sex dreams, never the DH (but this was with the ex, who was not particularly sexy to me because, well, I hated him). I feel like I would have orgasms in my sleep, too.

And yes, I agree with you and Cinss about the weirdo porn. I don't like hearing those icky loud moans and the HORRID music in most of them either! I am just going to check it out alone this weekend while DH is away so I can kind of see if there is anything I would be comfortable watching with him. I've never been really good with stuff like that, and my DH is not a super adventurous guy in the bedroom- although it's fun- he's more into just sex and not toys or videotaping or anything mildly kinky like that!

[LolaInLove]

Lola, I totally agree with teaching little ones about life and death and how precious life is. My eldest DD doesn't quite get it but she knows that Karly (our dog) is in heaven. She always talks about her and tells us that Karly is always watching us from up in the sky.

Yeah, I am ok with the news. I was actually expecting to hear it was a boy, just assuming the sway worked. I know swaying has had an affect on body so I guess the sway did work, but we still got a girl.

I wonder what is going on with the cramps. Are they definitely coming from the uterus? Could they be stomach cramps?

IDK, they are really strange! I was 5dpo yesterday and they hit me like a ton of bricks in the morning. And these are not mild AF like cramps, they are the kind that doubles you over and makes it hard to breathe normally. I had to take 2 painkillers yesterday! They feel like the hard core labor cramps you get when it feels like there is a knife in your uterus and the pain radiates around to your back too. I am ok today, though. I can't imagine I've grown polyps or fibroids or whatever in a matter of a week, because she u/s me just a week ago and all looked great. Maybe I'm just getting old and my uterus is rebelling.

[LolaInLove]

Best of luck to all you ladies TTC this month. Sending lots of Blue baby dust your way




Do I still have to wait another 5 months . The reason for our waiting is that DD may need an operation in the summer (after she is 18 months old) and we will find out on the 16th of May if she needs the op or not. So fingers crossed that we here good news in two weeks time and we can start working on making her a little brother.

Oh jeez, I hope she doesn't need it! I know that is scary to think about your little one going under the knife!!! Well hey, you can start swaying now and changing your diet and taking supps even if you are not ttc yet. I can totally understand wanting to wait until the stressful period is over.

[Pearl327]

Oh jeez, I hope she doesn't need it! I know that is scary to think about your little one going under the knife!!! Well hey, you can start swaying now and changing your diet and taking supps even if you are not ttc yet. I can totally understand wanting to wait until the stressful period is over.

I am really starting to majorly stress about it at the moment and fingers & toes crossed that she will not need it. But if she does then both me and DH feel like we need to concentrate on the baby we have.

I am only taking folic acid and trying to increase snacking and protein at the min. But if she gets the all clear in two weeks then the swaying will start in full.

[Pearl327]

IDK, they are really strange! I was 5dpo yesterday and they hit me like a ton of bricks in the morning. And these are not mild AF like cramps, they are the kind that doubles you over and makes it hard to breathe normally. I had to take 2 painkillers yesterday! They feel like the hard core labor cramps you get when it feels like there is a knife in your uterus and the pain radiates around to your back too. I am ok today, though. I can't imagine I've grown polyps or fibroids or whatever in a matter of a week, because she u/s me just a week ago and all looked great. Maybe I'm just getting old and my uterus is rebelling.

Hi Lola,

Sorry you are having such a hard time of it lately. I know you said you were 5dpo but it could be late really bad middlesmertz. I do get middlesmertz and about 3 times in my life I have had it so bad that I thought I had appendicitis or something else very serious. I would be in agony, unable to move. As you said like full on labour pain.

[Hobbermittens]

OMG...IC1111 finally did my reading...



God I hope it comes true....she has been bloody spot on for most of the people she has read for if you check out her stats thread on the SBB forum.

Hope she is right!!

[LolaInLove]

Hi Lola,

Sorry you are having such a hard time of it lately. I know you said you were 5dpo but it could be late really bad middlesmertz. I do get middlesmertz and about 3 times in my life I have had it so bad that I thought I had appendicitis or something else very serious. I would be in agony, unable to move. As you said like full on labour pain.

Well, I know I ovulated on CD14 because I got a +opk and I do get ovulation pain/middleschmirtz....I can feel my ovaries going nuts for a good hour or so. This is very much uterine cramping. I had it on CD 8 as well, after AF this month, and I had a normal AF but I spotted brown for a week before AF and then had red spotting for about 5 days after also, which is highly abnormal for me. My doctor couldn't tell me what was wrong as she said my uterus looked perfectly fine (I saw her last week, it was CD11) and she could see my ovaries about to pop out an egg. I hope it's not something else like appendicitis!!!! Pearl, when you had your pains, you think it was a super strong ovulation only?