UK SMOG Wannabes May

[Inglewood]

The oesteopath might be something to consider, esp with DD2 who was breech, she has colic worse! My friend goes to a crianal oesteopath with her son, will get the no.

[charlieispy]

Hope it helps hun x huge hugs

and deaks totally with you their SMOB <3 although 2 of my boys were constantly mistaken for girls whilst we were away!!!

[Babymad]

Hi girls.....

Inglewood ~ pleased things are better with DH, and I hope things ease up with the girls. I suppose it's trial and error which takes time and patience, neither of which you have at the mo I'm sure! X

Hi to Kell and Pinga and Indigo Lovely to hear from you all x

Charlie ~ Legoland looked great, can't wait to take the boys hope you get your washer sorted soon, no fun!! All my jobs seem to take forever these days with such a big bump, can't wait to be bump free!!!! I was painting the garden fence yesterday and it about killed me off! How are your counselling sessions going?

Zanacal ~ Still no signs? Have you done the deed, that helps??

Deaks ~ love your holiday pics Hope all goes well with your scan tomorrow, I still think that was very early to say for sure so I will look forward to your post incase a pink bean is in there

I am so pleased its the last day of school today! I am so looking forward to hiding for a week! My induction date is the day they go back to school so at least I won't have to see anyone for awhile now and baby will be here by the time I do the school run again.

You would think with going 2 weeks over with the others that I would be use to it but I'm struggling now my feet are so swollen and it's very painful to stand/ walk. Each day is dragging

My hitech friend had her twin girls yesterday, must be so amazing to hold your DD(s). I wish I knew how to accept that I will NEVER have a DD....where do you start???

[Babymad]

Sunset ~ 5 months, that is crazy!!! I love that age, so sweet

[deaks66]

Babymad, is there no way you could ever go HT again? would it be the finances or dh (or perhaps both) that would be the problem? You look like the sort of person that could handle 5 kiddywinks!!

[Babymad]

Babymad, is there no way you could ever go HT again? would it be the finances or dh (or perhaps both) that would be the problem? You look like the sort of person that could handle 5 kiddywinks!!

In a word no! I would only ever go to USA for PDG which would mean taking a family of 6 on holiday plus hi-tech costs which we could never afford in the next few years and then I would be too old. Winning the lottery would be the only way, honestly! DH will be having the snip at some point after this baby is born. We couldn't practically have 5 kids either, not enough room, cost etc etc. I always wanted four so feel thankful we have been blessed with four healthy children but I couldn't go to 5 - I much prefer even numbers So it is a reality that I will never have a daughter, I will never know what she looked like, what her hair colour was, her eye colour, her smile......I struggle everyday with knowing my whole life will have an emptiness that nothing else can fill but a daughter. But life does go on so i will have to manage somehow......

[charlieispy]

babymad i could have written that post myself i only ever wanted 4 although in my head i always had girls at least 2!! The fact i will never see dh hold his baby girl he longed for so much never to know what she would have could have been. I couldnt have 5 i would have to have 6 but we really cant afford 4 kids let alone anymore - we will never have that money not anytime soon and i have made dh promise if we do have that sort of money I can get a VW campervan just for me.......its something i have wanted since i was 16 and so my aim is to save for that make it my piece of girly heaven in a world of b.o footie and boys......they can have a tent!!!

[Babymad]

I too feel so sad charlie that DH won't have a daughter, he would have been a great dad to a daughter and before my relationship went 'boobs up' with my dad i had a great relationship with him and a good few years of great memories where my dad was my world .I can't accept that we will never see our daughter get married....have her first child and become a woman
I too am like you, desperately trying to find someone that i can cling onto that may help me feel better.....we are renovating our bathroom at the mo and I am trying to add an element of 'girly' (Cath Kidston towels etc) god knows why it will only get trashed by 4 boys but hey ho I need someone in my life other than toilet seats left up and football boots everywhere
Are you waiting until his arrival to tell everyone?

[deaks66]

In a word no! I would only ever go to USA for PDG which would mean taking a family of 6 on holiday plus hi-tech costs which we could never afford in the next few years and then I would be too old. Winning the lottery would be the only way, honestly! DH will be having the snip at some point after this baby is born. We couldn't practically have 5 kids either, not enough room, cost etc etc. I always wanted four so feel thankful we have been blessed with four healthy children but I couldn't go to 5 - I much prefer even numbers So it is a reality that I will never have a daughter, I will never know what she looked like, what her hair colour was, her eye colour, her smile......I struggle everyday with knowing my whole life will have an emptiness that nothing else can fill but a daughter. But life does go on so i will have to manage somehow......

... and you will manage babymad, i know it! Things will become much less raw and time will heal like it does with everything else. DS4 will be the start and things will continue to improve im sure of it. Its such a hard prospect for any of us to face. I still don't picture a dd in my life even though we will give HT a shot... it just doesn't feel like its meant to be somehow.

[deaks66]

babymad i could have written that post myself i only ever wanted 4 although in my head i always had girls at least 2!! The fact i will never see dh hold his baby girl he longed for so much never to know what she would have could have been. I couldnt have 5 i would have to have 6 but we really cant afford 4 kids let alone anymore - we will never have that money not anytime soon and i have made dh promise if we do have that sort of money I can get a VW campervan just for me.......its something i have wanted since i was 16 and so my aim is to save for that make it my piece of girly heaven in a world of b.o footie and boys......they can have a tent!!!

a campervan sounds perfect! Decked out all girly and vintage and lovely, i can just see it!