October Chit Chat Thread for Swaying Blue!!

[prayforaboy]

Thanks pearl. We will Dtd tonight.

[Pearl327]

I will test next Friday and my daughter's B-Day party is the next day so I'll definitely have a distraction if negative.

The very best of luck tomorrow n710. I really hope you get your BFP.

[n710]

Thanks Pearl and ELP!!!!
I am definitely keyed up, so haven't been on much because I am trying not to think abut. That second week of the 2WW is the killer!
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Unfortunately, my temps have gone down the last 2 mornings So, I am trying to prepare myself for the BFN.
It's hard though because this was our month to try. We may or may not try again in January. We were sort of being fatalistic about trying one month and that's it. DH was more for stopping at 4 kids.

For me, this really started as wanting to try for a boy, but I have also realized there is a big part of me that wants another baby period. I be thrilled with a boy, but at the same time if we did get pregnant and it was a girl then I would have 4 girls instead of 3 and then less of a chance for one of the girls to feel "in the middle" or left out.

Anyway, DH is amazing so if I do want to try again in Jan. he will. Although our sway will not be as good then because I know he won't cut back as much as he did for this past month.

Whew, sorry so long ladies. really thinking about getting the BFN really puts things in perspective.

I will update tomorrow!

Pearl, hope you have some success this month and the 2ww flies by!!!

ELP-So are going for it this month?

[n710]

Thanks pearl. We will Dtd tonight.

OPK's are tricky. The month I got pregnant with DD it was positive for four days???

No harm in trying more I think-hope you went for it.

[ELP]

The very best of luck tomorrow n710. I really hope you get your BFP.

From me to!!!!!

[n710]

Thanks ELP

Unfortunately, I'm out. BFN.
I am glad now that I had the low temps the last couple of days so I didn't get my hopes up too much. I was really feeling confident before that.
Weird though, I haven't had a negative test since I was trying with my first.
Anyway, I may be back in January to try. DH and I have to figure that one out.

Pearl, I really hope you get a bfp this month, I know you've been trying for a bit.
ELP, hope you don't have to wait too long either.

GL to the rest of the ladies, wishing everyone a lot of blue dust!!!!

[Pearl327]

Sorry to hear that n710. But if it didn't suit to have a baby next fall then having a small baby may have been challenging too. On the plus if you are trying in jan there are a lot of boy mamas that have got their boys after Christmas.

I am 4 dpo today and trying to be as relaxed as possible this month. I will not be testing until after we come back from my parents next Tuesday week, if I get that far AF is due the bank holiday Monday.

[ELP]

n710, I'm so sorry for your bfn xxx I truly hope your DH is on board to try again in January!! As Pearl said alot of boys are January conceptions, one of mine is The thing with January aswell is that you have all the big holidays in between, so plenty of great eating!! Plus the distraction of getting everything ready for the holidays will put ttc to the back of your mind!! best of luck whatever you decide

[ELP]

Pearl, good luck for next weeks testing! Have you had any early signs?? One I get is vivid, scary dreams, apparently its the body getting ready for the responsibilities!!

[ELP]

afm, I think if I have gone back to a 31 day cycle then I should be attempting around the 26th!! I think I am in a good place with my sway as I feel great especially with little Dave practically sleeping through, I just have a positive feeling about life in general for the next few months, dreading xmas, but apart from that things are looking up!!