What a cow! That is so insensitive and RUDE. I'd have shot back with something like "dont pity me love, you've got the teenage years to look forward to - with 2 girls, you'll need more patience then mother theresa"
It is so horrible when people make comments.
I haven't had any 'nasty' ones as yet, but I have had a couple that have hurt...though I know the intention of the comment wasn't to be hurtful.
One of the girls at work (who is 26 but deadset has the maturity of a 12yr old) said "its going to be such a disappointment if its a boy!" I just shot back at said, "no actually it wont be a disappointment, as long as its happy and healthy is all that matter" and then she carried on with "yeh, but I'll still be upset for you"
I know she didnt mean it in a nasty way, she is just flippant and juvenile, but it hurt that anybody would label my child a 'disappointment'
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November 10th, 2012, 06:28 PM #3301Mummy to DS10 who is the light of our world
Swayedtook us 8 cycle's and I'm finally
Please be a sticky little bean, we have wished and hoped for you for so long xo
Our family welcomed ain May 2013 and thats ok, we're head over heels in love with him and feel blessed to be honoured with 2 sons
January 2014 - A little surprise that went to heaven before we could meet
October 2014 - Officially swaying for one last little bundle and wishing and hoping its a pink one
April 2015- All our dreams have miraculously come true, our sway worked and our family will be complete with the little girl joining us in October this year
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November 10th, 2012, 06:38 PM #3302
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November 10th, 2012, 07:26 PM #3303
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November 10th, 2012, 08:10 PM #3304Dream Vet
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Honestly ,I know the experienced guessers don't do this ,but I feel like whatever the first person says sometimes other people just follow suit.. When it comes to nub theory..
Mommy to DS1 (3)DS2 (1 1/2)
angel baby DD lost at 20 weeks
(5/12) and another angel baby DD
at 17 weeks due to ??? (12/12)
Next option will be HT eventually...
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November 10th, 2012, 08:19 PM #3305
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November 10th, 2012, 08:20 PM #3306Dream Vet
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Here and baby center almost all girl guesses for mine and on IG boy.. Just goes to show.
Mommy to DS1 (3)DS2 (1 1/2)
angel baby DD lost at 20 weeks
(5/12) and another angel baby DD
at 17 weeks due to ??? (12/12)
Next option will be HT eventually...
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November 10th, 2012, 08:20 PM #3307
Some girls were bumping threads three or four times with no guesses, IMO because it was just really hard to say either way, and as soon as someone comes on and says "very ___" there are six or seven similar guesses.
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November 10th, 2012, 08:23 PM #3308Dream Vet
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Haha yup exactly , Its fun to see guesses but I know mine can go either way
Mommy to DS1 (3)DS2 (1 1/2)
angel baby DD lost at 20 weeks
(5/12) and another angel baby DD
at 17 weeks due to ??? (12/12)
Next option will be HT eventually...
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November 10th, 2012, 08:26 PM #3309
On IG, my first was an "I'm not sure but I think maybe girl." Then someone said "that's over 30%" and suddenly there were all boy guesses. And I've had more than one person say "the nub is flat in the first shot but angled in the 2nd," but it can't be both a girl and a boy.
After talking with my tech friend and watching the DVD a couple of times, it seems to depend a lot on the moment the image was captured. For instance, one of my prints shows what looks like a bulb, but if you watch the video it is actually "junk" from the tech moving the image in and out to get a better profile. Some people have snagged potty shots that weren't focused on genitals, but on other parts of the lower body.
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November 10th, 2012, 08:36 PM #3310