TTC BOY in a few days! Please help with my questions if you can!

[The Anchor]

I'd use a quarter's worth every day and then a generous application to DH's equipment before DTD.

Oh, I didn't know this...so every day from AF to O? The package says up to 15 minutes prior to DTD...

[onthepond]

Okay I need help now please. Super stressed. The Green Tea and fish oil and EPO must be making me OV early because I randomly took a clearblue easy OPK just a few mins ago and it had a smiley face! I am freaking out because I was supposed to OV on Thursday or Friday this week. What do we do now? Plan to DTD tonight? I just took my first one today at 1:30pm. I did take one last night around 5:30pm and it was negative but obviously I made a bad decision and didn't test later last night or this morning until now so I have no idea when the surge started

Other problem - hubby and I last had sex on Sunday evening because we were hoping for the 4 day cutoff thinking Thursday would be the earliest that I would OV, so how much is that going to hurt our chances of conceiving a boy? I am just heartbroken because I had this all planned out for Thursday. If it seems a lost cause, please tell me, otherwise I think we will plan to go for it tonight and tomorrow morning unless you guys have other ideas. I seriously cannot believe this. I just about died when I saw that smiley face...The good news is that I had a ton of EWCM...but the smiley face does not mean that I am ovulating right now, does it? Doesn't it mean it is leading up to it? SO, maybe we BD tonight before bed and tomorrow morning before work...I would like to get in 3 attemps - what about a lunch time BD tomorrow, too or is that too much BD without a 4 days cutoff his was only 2 days? Or is that too close to O+12? Please give me your thoughts on what to do next - I am trying not to cry over here. Thanks!

[The Anchor]

My advice...for a blue sway you should DTD tonight, tomorrow morning and tomorrow night. Don't worry about cut off or O+12 (and read the timing essay if you get a chance). Do you have preseed?

[onthepond]

YES! We have preseed and will use some tonight and tomorrow. I am seriously just devastated. Thank you so much for the advice. We will plan to BD tonight, tomorrow morning, and then tomorrow night, too.

ONE more thing. Thursday was going to be a critical boy day for moon signs and biorythms and of course yesterday was critical girl day. Do you guys believe in those? If so, are we destined to have another girl based on that? I seriously just want to cry right now...all of this is so overwhelming.

[The Anchor]

If it helps you any, my DD was conceived under boy signs and positive ions and my DS was conceived under girl sign and negative ions. So I don't put much faith i those...

[onthepond]

My advice...for a blue sway you should DTD tonight, tomorrow morning and tomorrow night. Don't worry about cut off or O+12 (and read the timing essay if you get a chance). Do you have preseed?

Hi Anchor - which timing survey are you talking about?? Thanks so much!

[The Anchor]

Atomic wrote an essay on how timing doesn't really sway either way...

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...le-timing.html

[The Anchor]

These ones too:

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-...ff-o-12-a.html
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...pink-blue.html

[Cinss]

onthepond, you have the green light Anchors advice is good, try for 3 attempts. Yippee for a tonn of ewcm! Dont stress out over the moon and ions etc, there is no science behind any of that. Best of luck, i hope you catch that egg

[atomic sagebrush]

Oh, I didn't know this...so every day from AF to O? The package says up to 15 minutes prior to DTD...

It's not make or break, it just seemed like something that could help if we started it a few days before O so it could get in all the nooks and crannies, then a good shot of it right befrore!!