Call me crazy

**4BlueLooking4Pink** · May 13th, 2011, 10:21 AM

But I'm thinking about doing basically no swaying. Sometimes I think the more I try the less effective I'll be because I obsess/worry too much about it. And honestly, I just want to be pg. I'm one that can and will be truly happy with another boy (although a girl would certainly be great and I really really want one!) but I figure girl or boy, I can't lose. God will give me what I should have and I'll take comfort in knowing he'd hand pick another little bundle just for me. Has anyone else felt this way? I might still use replens every 3 days up until after I ov for ph reasons and take my vitex & cranberry but that's it. So, am I crazy? Will I regret not trying more?

**mindyjean** · May 13th, 2011, 11:34 AM

I've had that thought many times as well. I am also Type-A, and I feel like I am going to obsess no matter what. I wish you luck with whatever you decide to do!

**shouldihope?** · May 13th, 2011, 11:37 AM

For me I really want a girl so I will try as much as I can without trying to be obsessive. Yeah right. I hope the more I try the less disappointed I will be if it is a boy again this time. I think it depends on the person and there family and what works for them. Good luck!

**atomic sagebrush** · May 13th, 2011, 01:24 PM

That is as valid a swaying technique as some of the others out there! I don't think there's anything wrong with that approach at all, esp. for those of us who get all control-freaky and stressed over stuff like swaying.

**PolishPrincess** · May 13th, 2011, 03:11 PM

Honestly, there are some days that I look at my third son and thing...what am I doing? What could be more fantastic than four little boys...what could be better than each of my sons have THREE BROTHERS to have his back his whole life and then I remember...this is just for fun to see if I can have a chance at that daughter because in the end I feel so much like you there is a spot I honestly believe missing in this family and it will be filled by whomever He sends to be with us....if we are blessed enough to have another. Best wishes to you on your family you sound like an awesome mom!