January 2WW!

[BabyGirl2013]

So sorry! I truly believe that if things aren't working for us, then we must tweak it a little. FR was what was killing us I think. We were DTD 16 straight days before O and I just wasn't getting pg. So we cut the FR down by more than half and we got our BFP! So you should add/drop whatever you feel is getting in your way of your BFP. It all depends on how bad you want your GD, if getting that girl is the most important then it might take longer to get BFP but if you are willing to drop some of the things then your chances of getting pg go up but maybe so do your chances of blue....Its a tough place to be in....I really feel your pain!

Thorz, interesting that you got your BFP after reducing FR. We DTD for 16 days straight too and I'm wondering if that played a part in the BFN this month. My DH is also taking LR. How many days did you reduce and did your DH take LR too? What I realized more than anything with this last cycle is that I truly just want another baby
more than I want a baby girl specifically. After being disappointed this month I know that I'd be just as happy with another boy. So there's my silver lining

[Mum to three girls]

I'm sorry to those who are out. I'm at work (lol) so can't write much but got a BFN this am. Still only 8 dpo though so I'm still hopeful. I've suddenly got quite a bit of EWCM and it's still slightly brown tinged so I'm not counting myself out yet. I've an article to write this weekend so between that and the girls I'll hopefully be too distracted to test a million times a day.

[Thorz300]

Thorz, interesting that you got your BFP after reducing FR. We DTD for 16 days straight too and I'm wondering if that played a part in the BFN this month. My DH is also taking LR. How many days did you reduce and did your DH take LR too? What I realized more than anything with this last cycle is that I truly just want another baby
more than I want a baby girl specifically. After being disappointed this month I know that I'd be just as happy with another boy. So there's my silver lining

We reduced it to a couple random times after AF (because my husband goes crazy if we go more than 2-3 days w/o DTD ) but we did 5 straight days up until O. You can look at my chart if that doesn't make since! I truly feel that is what made the difference!

[yamanote]

No soy... I do use a little soy milk from time to time in cooking (I'm milk allergic), but I try not to have too much soy. I worry about it increasing estrogen... one of those things I guess I need to research more!

[yamanote]

I am so exhausted tonight... boobs hurt, spiking temps randomly, terrible headache, sick to my stomach... I either am pg, coming down with something, or in for the world's worst AF!
Lol, guess we'll see soon!

[meeks32]

Would just like to say, for anyone feeling uninspired, swaying totally works! I did the swaying quiz on my girlfriend when she conceived (you know, all the main questions revolving around the GD sway philosophy) and told her she should have a girl. 10 months later she just did! She was typical LE diet, no multivitamins, only did it once during o week after abstain, etc etc.

I am totally rejuvenated with this news that it will all be worth it!

[yamanote]

Alrighty... 14dpo, bfn again, AF is due today, and no spotting (I usually spot for 2-3 days before AF comes in full force for 5 days).

Shrugs shoulders. Just twiddling my thumbs over here... haha :-)

[yamanote]

I'm sorry to those who are out. I'm at work (lol) so can't write much but got a BFN this am. Still only 8 dpo though so I'm still hopeful. I've suddenly got quite a bit of EWCM and it's still slightly brown tinged so I'm not counting myself out yet. I've an article to write this weekend so between that and the girls I'll hopefully be too distracted to test a million times a day.

Good luck Mumto3! Hope you get your BFP in the next day or two! We need more bfp's for January :-)

[Averysmom]

Hi - I'm new here and just 3 dpo. Going to be a long 2 weeks but looking forward to talking with you ladies. Congrats Thorz! Hang in there everyone else :-)

[True Blue]

I'm in the 2ww now too
3dpo according to FF. I think I'm 2dpo so FF will possibly adjust tomorrow when I add in bbt.
For some reason I'm not dreading the 2ww - I feel we've done our part and have no control over this bit.
Good Luck everybody