Bleeding but temps still up, and preg tests still positive?

[LacePrincess]

Ugh I so agree, it's the NOT KNOWING that sucks ass. I had a nice comforting IM chat with my best friend today, so I feel better. Okay, so the grilled cheese sandwich and chocolate cake helped too.

I'll be fine. If this ends badly, then at least it was early, yk? I totally dread having something like a missed m/c, that has got to be the worst of all.

It's been sporadic, I notice I'm not experiencing any flow in between potty visits, and just some (but still red) when I wipe. Back to wiping pink by late evening. I don't want to get my hopes up though, but we'll see what tomorrow brings. I'm hoping maybe I'll dream something that'll tell me what to expect.

Looking on the bright side though, I'm glad that I did conceive again and that my LP was definitely long enough with the B6. So even if we have to try again at least I've got my supplement/vitamin formula down, lol!

I promised hubby no tests, no temps, and no checking internally for a week. So, reprieve from any pressure of POAS. Probably better not to, if it's a loss it'll happen the next few days anyways.

[meeks32]

I agree meeks...once you KNOW it is failing, your mind can move forward incredibly well, maybe because you half expected it. But it still hurts and moving forward can be bittersweet...because my DS#2 is straight away after a loss and how wonderful it is that I have him. But I always find it incredibly hard to put away 'what could have been' because I get very attached right away. I"m never able to stay detached once I get that BFP. I start dreaming of baby feet right away. So I am always gutted but obviously able to keep picking myself up and keep trying.

Was this your 3rd chemical in a row? I hope there is something they can do for a short LP...I am sure there is. They may add progesterone? ARe you a Vitex person?

I"m just still in limbo. I'm ok because I am a very optimistic person...I always see hope no matter what. I'm just dreading the big referral to the reproductive endocrinologist because this is not ME to keep losing babies...I am Fertile Myrtle and somebody has taken my title away!!

I basically feel exactly the same!

I am previously very fertile and crossing my fingers for clomid but just also want a ultrasound to make sure it's all ok.

Yes this is my third in a row but first where I had confusion as in temps stayed high and pg test was still pos after bleeding started.

Not a vitex person, scared to use it in case it mucks me up worse! Just started soy and this was my 2nd cycle on it, it helped my luteal go from 10 to 12 days but didn't help me hang onto the beans any better. :-(

[harleyquinn]

Oh meeks I did not say properly I am sorry for your loss I had us moving forward already, but I am sorry and I do know how disappointing it is.

lace...you are still in the game, don't lose hope and don't get stinkin' drunk quite yet...because I think this can still turn out absolutely ok for you.

And hopefully for me too No use having the pity party till you get an invitation...personally, I don't like to crash parties I'm gonna wait to get my invite and then see what to do. I fully believe in pity parties when they are needed. You just can't over-stay your welcome.

[harleyquinn]

I feel the same way about Vitex. However I would give my left leg for Clomid!! I will never get it because I ovulate like some sort of freaking machine!!

Hoping you get some answers xx

[meeks32]

I feel the same way about Vitex. However I would give my left leg for Clomid!! I will never get it because I ovulate like some sort of freaking machine!!

Hoping you get some answers xx

Hoping to pretend I don't know if I ovulate and focus on the fact I've been trying so long and fx I have a gp that gives it out willy nilly. Probably not!

[LacePrincess]

Ah well crud. I'm out.

Got pretty much full AF overnight and risked a cervix check, and it's open. Plus some lovely back cramps and that's all she wrote.

Well damn, but well we'll keep trying. I won't bother going into the doc if my hpt's are clear bfn's. Not sure about continuing the vitex or not though, still thinking about that.

[meeks32]

Ah well crud. I'm out.

Got pretty much full AF overnight and risked a cervix check, and it's open. Plus some lovely back cramps and that's all she wrote.

Well damn, but well we'll keep trying. I won't bother going into the doc if my hpt's are clear bfn's. Not sure about continuing the vitex or not though, still thinking about that.

So sorry for you, I know how it feels, and it stinks!
Glad to hear you aren't discouraged, do think twice about vitex I hear it mucks with lots of people's cycles... Pm atomic if unsure and see what she recommends given your history and the rest of your sway...

[meeks32]

Hmmm my tests are negative now, but temps still rising... Am I sick? I am VERY tired and a bit dizzy.
Guessing it can't happen that your preg tests go negative, you get bleeding but you are still pregnant. That's a bit too wishful thinking I reckon...