June 2WW

[Out of the Blue]

DM - Blue dye is really unreliable from what I've heard so you'd want pink dye or a digi w/a BFP on it to make sure. From the sounds of things, I think you're headed to the conference! And, NOOOOO, you don't sound like a horrible person, lol! KUP on what shakes out!

As for charting, usually (usually but not always) your temp goes down right before you start AF. Alexis, FF did the same thing to me last cycle...changed it on me 2x!!! I was really annoyed! Your temp usually goes up significantly after you O and that way, you can usually tell if you Oed or not. I couldn't tell for sure w/my chart last time since everything was a mess. I'm hoping regardless of what day you Oed that you get your BFP!!! Sending you BLUE DUST!

BTW, who the h*!! knows when I'll O again...I think it'll be July 12 - 15th (per FF) but the bad part is that DH will be out of town from July 5th to 11th so it's not looking so great as far as TTC this next round...More waiting on top of lots of waiting. Maybe in August we can make it happen...??? I cheated on my diet this weekend b/c I was so fed up w/everything and the fact that it probably won't happen any time soon. I'm going to have another talk w/my body and convince them to O before DH leaves...Maybe they can pop out an eggie or 2 at the right time.

[3boys]

Ok well I tested this morning 10dpo and BFN. Was a bit upset to be honest but still early so not giving up hope. I am wondering whether it's the weather making me feel so nauseas! :-(

Doula I would trust the FRER as they are much more sensitive than the blue dye tests.

Im not testing tomorrow going to hold out until 12 DPO now as I can't stand the heat ache!

[Mochagirl]

Don't give up hope, 3boys - 10dpo is still very early. I think it's a good idea to wait 2 days before testing again if seeing a BFN brings you down so much. I think 12dpo sounds like a great testing day - good luck!

[DoulaMama]

I was going to post photos but I don't want to obsess!! LOL I just took another ClearBlue....I know they're unreliable but I have one left and I want to use it before I use my last FRER....and I can see the faintest of lines after 5-10 mins. Yesterday I saw nothing until 30mins later, which to me means an evap line. I have pretty constant cramps right now but AF isn't showing yet...not even spotting. I don't spot much anyway, but I ALWAYS start to bleed pretty much as soon as the AF cramps hit(like within minutes). I'm so frickin confused right now! I just want to know already! I think I'm going to used my FRER later today when I have really held my urine for over 4+ hours. It was blaring BFN yesterday so can it actually change that quickly to light line in 24 hrs? Would it be best to wait 48? I hate this.....

[DoulaMama]

Don't give up hope, 3boys - 10dpo is still very early. I think it's a good idea to wait 2 days before testing again if seeing a BFN brings you down so much. I think 12dpo sounds like a great testing day - good luck!

I agree, 3Boys! Test again in 2 days. I should take the same advice but I've jumped on the POAS train and now I can't get off! I hope you get your BFP soon! xo

[DoulaMama]

DM - Blue dye is really unreliable from what I've heard so you'd want pink dye or a digi w/a BFP on it to make sure. From the sounds of things, I think you're headed to the conference! And, NOOOOO, you don't sound like a horrible person, lol! KUP on what shakes out!

As for charting, usually (usually but not always) your temp goes down right before you start AF. Alexis, FF did the same thing to me last cycle...changed it on me 2x!!! I was really annoyed! Your temp usually goes up significantly after you O and that way, you can usually tell if you Oed or not. I couldn't tell for sure w/my chart last time since everything was a mess. I'm hoping regardless of what day you Oed that you get your BFP!!! Sending you BLUE DUST!

BTW, who the h*!! knows when I'll O again...I think it'll be July 12 - 15th (per FF) but the bad part is that DH will be out of town from July 5th to 11th so it's not looking so great as far as TTC this next round...More waiting on top of lots of waiting. Maybe in August we can make it happen...??? I cheated on my diet this weekend b/c I was so fed up w/everything and the fact that it probably won't happen any time soon. I'm going to have another talk w/my body and convince them to O before DH leaves...Maybe they can pop out an eggie or 2 at the right time.

That would suck to just miss it or only have one day...could your hubby release daily while he's gone and then you could give your best shot when he gets home? Or wait until 5 mins before he leaves and jump on him... I wouldn't use too many sperm killers if you're hoping they live long, though I'd say you still have a chance this cycle! It's the cycles that seem impossible to get pregnant that end up being the ones!
xo

[3boys]

Doula yes you ca definitely go from a BFN one day to a BFP the next. Whatever the FRER says later I would totally trust that result!

Ok here is my news, just had another look at my FRER I took this morning (I know I know I shouldn't but let's face it EVERYONE DOES RIGHT!) and I can see a line! It definitely wasn't there when I tested this morning! I know it is most likely an evap but do you think it might be a good sign? I took the test this Am waited the time saw it was negative and then chucked it in the box to get the kids ready for school. So who knows if it came up 15 mins or 8 hours later!? What do you Girlies think?

[DoulaMama]

Doula yes you ca definitely go from a BFN one day to a BFP the next. Whatever the FRER says later I would totally trust that result!

Ok here is my news, just had another look at my FRER I took this morning (I know I know I shouldn't but let's face it EVERYONE DOES RIGHT!) and I can see a line! It definitely wasn't there when I tested this morning! I know it is most likely an evap but do you think it might be a good sign? I took the test this Am waited the time saw it was negative and then chucked it in the box to get the kids ready for school. So who knows if it came up 15 mins or 8 hours later!? What do you Girlies think?

I have totally heard of pink lines coming up on the FRER after the time allowed and have them turn into a true BFP in a days time!!! I'm totally hoping this is it for you!!

I have zero patience....so I went and POAS- FRER. It's negative...very negative. I'm exactly 10dpo at around noon today. You would think it would show by now...but I guess sometimes it shows up 11-12dpo.....
Looking at my chart I started to dry up on the 17th in the evening, so I'm thinking that I O'd a bit earlier in the day. If the tests show nothing tomorrow night, I'm going to be booking a flight! Yippee!! And if they do....I'll be just as happy

[purplepoet20]

Not sure if I count on the June or July swayers forum.... We started DTD today and I should O on or after July 1st.

Great to see all the BFP good luck to everyone and looking forward to US pics and baby pics!

[begonia]

Welcome Purple!! Stick on our June thread. It's super fun :-)

Doula I TOTALLY get what you're saying about hoping for a BFN this month bc that was exactly where I was ... clearly it didn't work out for me, so I hope it does work out for you! DH was pretty shocked too. I mean we shouldn't be. We DTD unprotected the day I o'd, and we have 1 DD we got while on BCPs, and 1 DD we got the 1st month off of them, so.... clearly we have gotten pg easily in the past. But for some reason both of us seemed to think we could be frisky and get away with it, LOL. I'm not as excited about my BFP as I should be, but I'll get there for sure.

3boys that sounds pretty promising to me!!!! When will you test again?!?! I will say I'm with Mocha, if a BFN will get you down wait it out... as hard as that is.

Alexis the whole FF/temping thing is not at all in my realm of knowledge, but I agree ... trust your own intuition over FF. And at this point, what's done is done, especially if you end up with a BFP!

OOB how'd the talk with your body go?!? Well, I hope

So I'm like, 3 weeks into this whole pregnancy thing and the nausea is already ramping up big time. I'm scared to see where this is headed