♥ JULY 2011 TTC Boy Chit Chat Thread ♥

[Cheekymoo]

Cheeky, yep I used them with both my girls. How quickly did the line appear? Post a pic anyway!! Ohh, exciting!!

well I thought I saw something 5 mins in but it was still dark here (7am)and that was under lights it got marginally 'darker' over the next 5/10 mins but really if you hold it a ruler away from you you would swear it is 'no line' you really gotta peer closely and you can see a faint line on the edge closest to the pee LOL more so if you look in natural light.............so I DUNNO...............will wait and see what the next few days bring........I am definately not counting my chickens yet.......but on the plus side I never get strong positives early on - DD1 was like day 14 and still faint for days after and DD2 was a 'squint i think i see something on 12dpo'...................

[Layla]

Thanks Cheeky and Bec. Good luck to you too also especially you Cheeky for this month. Hey I was watching Kerry Ann this morning (yes yes I know I am old) but there was a woman talking about gender disappointment. She wanted a girl but got a boy did you watch it? She said she tried everything including douching it sounds like and did not work. But KA was looking at her like "are you joking what kind of a joke is gender disappointment." And asking her questions like what do you have to say to people who can't have any babies and you have 2 healthy ones. So I think it is best to keep quiet about this swaying business and have a good chat on this very nice and supportive forum about it only.

[Layla]

And I am getting myself pre-seed tomorrow. Look this website tells you where you can buy it from in Oz. There is some in the pharmacy around the corner from me!!! http://www.preseed.com.au/preseed.html

[begonia]

Just started to post and I can hear baby girl waking up!

SO very quickly ... FX that is a real BFP Cheeky!

And TTC5 I'm sorry this doesn't seem to be your month :-( ITA with Jen, keep at it and you're just making your body more and more boy friendly!

Layla, go for it! Love that you'll O near the full moon this time too! FX for you! When will your attempt be?

Jen can't believe your appt is tomorrow ... really hoping you get the us!

[LolaInLove]

Layla, go for it, sister! You are in good company with a lot of mid to late thirty-somethings on this forum, and we are in the same boat of wanting another baby and feeling like we don't have all the time in the world. I think you have a good shot at a nice sway!

3pnb, stoked to hear about your appt!

TTC5, if you feel the need to regroup and take 4 weeks, then that is a good thing to do. Hugs, I know it is frustrating, but just know that you will get preggers soon.

Cheeky, excited for you! Test again in a day or two!

[cemas]

FX Cheeky.....GL. IC never work for me for preg test. OPK are ok.
so i thnk getting anything on the IC is a good sign.

Layla thats great news.GL on ur attempt

Lola u r getting closer....excited for u. are u still swaying or no?

GL on ur appt. 3pnb.....hope u get to see ur bean. Begonia when is u r appointment?

i think i did O from today's temp but not sure if it was mon or tues as i had ewcm till yesterday and from previous cycles i have seen that i do get ewcm a day or two after o too....weird. Was so thinking of doing yesterday too....but chickened out.

[3Pink1Blue]

Cheeky- I hate those taunting little ghost lines, I used to use the earlypregnancytests.com tests and got horrible evaps, everyone here thought one of them was positive, me included. If you get another questionable line go buy a frer for this month and maybe buy a different brand next time

Layla- great news!! fx on your attempt this month. FWIW I've always been a ohw, even my loss (which I was swaying) was a first month, one time dtd bfp. The length of my ttc this time was due to healing time from my Oct d&c, the first month things went back to normal I got my bfp. Yes I'm a freaky anomaly, 6 bfp's first month out and all, but it isn't necessarily going to take you a year. Like lola and I have said prepare yourself it'll take a few but don't think it'll never happen.
Yep people can be quite cruel about gd, it's definitely best to keep your feelings with those who can understand. I've told very few real life people, if I'm having a girl I don't want to hear "I told you it wouldn't work" or have people think I don't want her.

Thanks Ladies, I'm pretty excited for my appt tomorrow. Feels like it took forever to get here so I'm sure the next three weeks will feel longer then the whole rest of the pregnancy lol

[babydes56]

Thanks Cheeky and Bec. Good luck to you too also especially you Cheeky for this month. Hey I was watching Kerry Ann this morning (yes yes I know I am old) but there was a woman talking about gender disappointment. She wanted a girl but got a boy did you watch it? She said she tried everything including douching it sounds like and did not work. But KA was looking at her like "are you joking what kind of a joke is gender disappointment." And asking her questions like what do you have to say to people who can't have any babies and you have 2 healthy ones. So I think it is best to keep quiet about this swaying business and have a good chat on this very nice and supportive forum about it only.

She's right though about having 2 healthy babies & still complaining!

[babydes56]

Cheeky- I hate those taunting little ghost lines, I used to use the earlypregnancytests.com tests and got horrible evaps, everyone here thought one of them was positive, me included. If you get another questionable line go buy a frer for this month and maybe buy a different brand next time

Layla- great news!! fx on your attempt this month. FWIW I've always been a ohw, even my loss (which I was swaying) was a first month, one time dtd bfp. The length of my ttc this time was due to healing time from my Oct d&c, the first month things went back to normal I got my bfp. Yes I'm a freaky anomaly, 6 bfp's first month out and all, but it isn't necessarily going to take you a year. Like lola and I have said prepare yourself it'll take a few but don't think it'll never happen.
Yep people can be quite cruel about gd, it's definitely best to keep your feelings with those who can understand. I've told very few real life people, if I'm having a girl I don't want to hear "I told you it wouldn't work" or have people think I don't want her.

Thanks Ladies, I'm pretty excited for my appt tomorrow. Feels like it took forever to get here so I'm sure the next three weeks will feel longer then the whole rest of the pregnancy lol

Good luck for tomorrow, i'm sure all will be well. How many weeks are you now? I hear you about having a girl & people passing insensitive remarks or making you feel that you didnt want the baby girl. I had my first midwife appt on Mon & she told me that all preg women in UK are now advised to take Vit D because of the lack of sunshine here, i was also pleased to hear that they now do 3 scans, one for down's between 11-13wks, a dating one at 12wks & final one at 20wks. I cant believe i'm already 9wks.

[babydes56]

FX Cheeky.....GL. IC never work for me for preg test. OPK are ok.
so i thnk getting anything on the IC is a good sign.

Layla thats great news.GL on ur attempt

Lola u r getting closer....excited for u. are u still swaying or no?

GL on ur appt. 3pnb.....hope u get to see ur bean. Begonia when is u r appointment?

i think i did O from today's temp but not sure if it was mon or tues as i had ewcm till yesterday and from previous cycles i have seen that i do get ewcm a day or two after o too....weird. Was so thinking of doing yesterday too....but chickened out.

Cemas, i REALLY hope this one's BFP for you. You've been trying for ages & i know how you must feel because i've been there myself as you know. I hope you & Lola will be joining me soon. Great that you had lots of ewcm & dtd twice to up your chances of getting preg