What is your perfect family make up?

**DoulaMama** · July 13th, 2011, 04:13 PM

Hmmmm.....

My original dream-

And of course it change with each child-

so it was:

then:

now:

LOL!

And really if I listen to my uterus and ovaries about my family make-up it screams :

HAHAHAHA! Hubs would most likely lop off his testicles himself if he had any idea how many kids I want....

**zanacal** · July 13th, 2011, 04:14 PM

So funny DM!

**nuthinbutpink** · July 13th, 2011, 05:15 PM

Before I had kids, all I knew is that I wanted a boy first. So, I cannot really answer that question without bias of my family makeup now but knowing now what my life is and what I have-

**queen-of-harts** · July 13th, 2011, 05:58 PM

If the heavens are listening i will now consider

or

or heck im easy to please

twin

lol

**Hobbermittens** · July 13th, 2011, 06:09 PM

I always wanted

.

My first was a girl, second was a boy, so I wanted another boy for my third. I would have been plenty happy with

... but I didn't get that.

**begonia** · July 13th, 2011, 06:18 PM

Originally Posted by queen-of-harts

If the heavens are listening i will now consider

or

or heck im easy to please

twin

lol

Queen I was thinking of you today! One of my dear friends is one of 7 ... she's #7 and has six older brothers

Here's hoping you have a little girl who can one day say the same!

As for me ... it's funny for a long time as a kid I thought I'd never have children. But once I grew up, I wanted boys, 2 or 3. But when I fell pg with #1 I just *knew* it was a girl, and I was right. And while I was gutted when I found out DC2 was also a girl, since she arrived I have loved having 2 of a kind. It's so fun to see how different they are in spite of same gender, isn't it? And lucky for me my girls are total tomboys so we're building with legos and flying airplanes and making forts all day

So it works.

And now I sure hope for

, but lately I can honestly say I'll be a-ok with

. And I think that is due to a LOT of prayer to be honest, because I never, ever would have seen myself happy with 3 daughters

I thank God for changing my heart for sure!

**Myloves** · July 13th, 2011, 08:49 PM

I've always wanted

. Just loved the idea of having 2 or 3 daughters. But then after I had DS1, I thought, hey maybe the idea of my future daughters having older brothers would be so bad

, so my dream changed to

.
Then my DS2 was born and my dream changed again to desperately wanting a daughter even if she were to be the only daughter I ever had. Luckily my family is now

so I did get a girl in the end... but I still wished(wish) for my DD to have a sister... took me a long time to properly appreciate my family makeup... I'm happy to have two boys and girl now, even if I do get pangs sometimes about Ruby not having a sister to grow up with (my boys are really close, and I want the same for my girl).

But for me now the perfect family make up would have to be

- something I wish I could have, but it'll probably never happen as I'm done with having kids.

**Myloves** · July 13th, 2011, 08:49 PM

Originally Posted by DoulaMama

Hmmmm.....

My original dream-

And of course it change with each child-

so it was:

then:

now:

LOL!

And really if I listen to my uterus and ovaries about my family make-up it screams :

HAHAHAHA! Hubs would most likely lop off his testicles himself if he had any idea how many kids I want....

Haha, yes!

My dream changed with each child too!

**queen-of-harts** · July 13th, 2011, 09:14 PM

Originally Posted by begonia

Queen I was thinking of you today! One of my dear friends is one of 7 ... she's #7 and has six older brothers

Here's hoping you have a little girl who can one day say the same!

As for me ... it's funny for a long time as a kid I thought I'd never have children. But once I grew up, I wanted boys, 2 or 3. But when I fell pg with #1 I just *knew* it was a girl, and I was right. And while I was gutted when I found out DC2 was also a girl, since she arrived I have loved having 2 of a kind. It's so fun to see how different they are in spite of same gender, isn't it? And lucky for me my girls are total tomboys so we're building with legos and flying airplanes and making forts all day

So it works.

And now I sure hope for

, but lately I can honestly say I'll be a-ok with

. And I think that is due to a LOT of prayer to be honest, because I never, ever would have seen myself happy with 3 daughters

I thank God for changing my heart for sure!

Awe Begonia thank you that is soo sweet! And i really hope you get your boy soon and you can have all my blue dust!!!

**mybluepilot** · July 13th, 2011, 09:38 PM

Ok ok my turn

So I always hoped and prayed to god to have a boy, boy, and then a girl
Now it's girl, girl, and would love boy , boy I want both of each gender, after each other and close in age to be friends and have each other..
It's sooo nice to dream (sighhhhh)

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