rephresh earlier than 12 hours before bd.........

[atomic sagebrush]

why?

the worst that will happen is BFN.

[mermaidmomma]

Because im a prefectionist, and i thought i was doing everything Perfectly according to MY sway plan...
just overly thinking.

[mermaidmomma]

but i BD'd 3 times more after that within the next day and half...
so maybe ill be ok!

[atomic sagebrush]

Because im a prefectionist, and i thought i was doing everything Perfectly according to MY sway plan...
just overly thinking.

Being a perfectionist and trying to achieve perfection via swaying, will sway blue a LOT more than any sway tactic ever could.

[atomic sagebrush]

but i BD'd 3 times more after that within the next day and half...
so maybe ill be ok!

Now deep breath and do not panic, but this is exactly the wrong thing to do.

We have gotten vastly higher rates of pink success with one attempt, than with virtually any other sway tactic. So it is a really really bad idea to keep the less effective things (such as jelly, antihistamine, frequency, herbs) and then add attempts to try and get pregnant. You trade things that aren't working much better than 50-50 and are really lowering odds of conception, for something that is getting good results (one attempt has been above 70% for years for us). Don't worry about it for this month, but next month I'd try keeping one attempt and dropping some other stuff instead.