Hitmebabyonemoretime TTC a GIRL Sway Attempt

[Boyzmommy]

I feel for u hitme. I read your sway ten times n it seems perfect. Its just luck😖

[ksmom]

I'm sorry it didn't go your way! You had a really great sway and it seems like you gave it your best. I'm sure that's a special little man you've got baking in there. I hope you get the opportunity to go HT! So sweet of your DH to bring it up.

[essnce629]

Oh Hitme I'm so sorry you didn't hear pink! I totally understand how you feel. I cried and was super upset for days and weeks after finding out I was having boys both time. I swore that I was having a girl every time and it was a huge shock to hear boy each time! Your feelings are totally ok and normal. Give yourself time to heal as it really is a loss of the life you saw yourself having with a daughter. I'm so glad your DH has given you hope with the possibility of going HT in the future. Your sway was amazing! I really don't think there was anything you could have done better. (((HUGS))) to you.

[Laurenk1424]

I'm so sorry Hitme.


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[Hitmebabyonemoretime]

Your support is heartwarming and heart wrenching at the same time. Idk where id be without this group, this boArd, what Ive learned. I'm just not ready to accept that I'll only have boys. I can't do it. I really hope ht is something I can get my hands on. I don't want to obsess over it, but it's all I can think about right now. I need to know if it's obtainable, so I can either keep my dreams alive or let them die once and for all.


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[Hitmebabyonemoretime]

I am so sorry you did not hear girl I think we all know exactly how you feel [emoji17]

When I found out I was having DS#2 via private gender scan I was devastated(I know sounds awful) I immediately came home and posted on my trusty babycenter DIG board that I spoke to DH about going HT. It's what kept me from going bananas during the pregnancy and after!

I am a prime example of HT success at 40 and now 42 and 6 months pregnant with another HT DD! Stick around the HT boards and learn everything you can from supplements to clinics.

It can happen! Take care [emoji4]

I have so much to learn...

I love your story - thank you for sharing - age worries me, so is nice to read of others in a similar age bracket having such beautiful stories <3

My biggest factor is how I'm gonna come up with the money. Dh and I have to figure it out. We just bought a house, I just went full time at my own business (so basically no income other than slush money on my end), and credit cards are pretty maxed. I'm looking into lines of credit but don't want to apply til I'm more ready to go.... So if we do get approved it doesn't get spend on garbage.

I'm just so blessed that when I was like "I guess going to California isn't an option" he was like "actually I didn't think that was so crazy at all". I thought he'd think I was being selfish and unrealistic and I thought he'd say we can't afford that - flat out. I'm really blessed. He could have squashed the remnants of this dream in 10 seconds flat.


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[Babygirlquest]

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[Hitmebabyonemoretime]

Oh hitme. I'm so sorry! I had two failed sways too. Maybe it hurts more when you have swayed as I think there is more hope of a girl. We were going to sway again this time before I just realised I couldn't go through the disappointment again so we have decided to go ht. I think you should research all you can and find a way to make it a reality after ds 5 gets here, I think it will help you bond with this little guy knowing it isn't your last chance. But hugs. You did everything you could, he was meant to be and he will be gorgeous!

Pming you


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[maidentomother]

Im sorry your sway failed hun, but congrats on your pregnancy and new LO! I really hope you get your HT DD.

[Hitmebabyonemoretime]

Im back. If anyone is still out there and sees this thread... I had DS, hes beautiful - more so than I could ever imagine - but the dream is not dead. We wanted to wait til he was done breastfeeding to try HT but now Im really scared. Being 42 it feels like I'll be pulling off the impossible.