Getting my 2nd girl sway attempt together. Advice please! :)

[XXforhubby]

Imoregirl- I'm so sorry this person is giving you grief! I want to personally tell you that is NOT the norm around here! We all support each other and help each other, regardless of our situations or circumstances!

As a matter of fact, while TTCing this little guy (swayed girl), my DH pulled the plug several times. I had to resort to drastic measures until I found wearing something sexy did the trick for him to change his mind [emoji6]! No one judged me and no one should judge you! Only YOU know what your family and marriage can tolerate- no one else!

I just want to make it clear that this type of behavior is far from normal and please IGNORE it! Atomic and NBP will take care of things if it persists, trust me!!


DS1[emoji125]🏼, DS2[emoji577], DS3[emoji170][emoji577][emoji843][emoji602][emoji170] Jan. '16 I'll sway for a DD[emoji166][emoji171][emoji166] for my DH!!

[1moregirl]

Xxforhubby - thanks soooo much Hun. It's lovely to know there are some really sweet and supportive ladies on this website. I'm staying clear of IG from now on that's for sure. Are you expecting a little boy soon? How exciting! Good luck to you. I have a sister who had 3 little boys and then did a bit of a sway and got a little girl. Xx

[Butterflies buttercups]

This is a great friendly site - I've just bought my personalised plan from atomic and asked lots of questions already ! I always get a quick and honest response which is what I need to sway pink .. Ask as many as questions as u like we're not here to judge but to help [emoji5]️
Ps how lovely having two boys and a girl this is my dream for next year ! Hope u get ur dd to complete ur family too xxx


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[atomic sagebrush]

Atomic Sagebrush - I do apologise if I have said anything I shouldn't have said. I tried to approach Mlechinger as diplomatically as possible. I am almost certain that she is a forum moderator from IG as I was getting exactly the same attitude from her on that website so maybe a stalker. If she has two girls and is wanting to sway for a boy then I would bet that is who it is. It is soooo true what you say about men delaying having babies with women and before we know it we are at menopause and the chances are gone. Or they get us pregnant at extremely young ages and abandon us. Happens all the time. Plus our 3rd was unplanned but DH was actually excited and has loved the child since he was born. Yes I was a bit sneaky this last 4th time but surely if we have sex without protection there is always going to be that chance of pregnancy so the men can't completely feign ignorance like they didn't know. And no...they don't have the pressure of time running out. No one should have the right to be sooo judgemental of another person's predicament because they really don't know the whole story. Thank you for your support Atomic Sagebrush.

No I'm sorry I was referring to the other person, not you! Not at all. Was just quoting it because I thought the thread you referred to was on this site and not IG and I wanted you to be aware I was going to clean it up.

My thinking is, dudes, if ya show up and have sex without protection in a marital relationship, that's as good as permission. They know how it happens. Others may disagree, but I have seen too many women told, "next month, next year, next decade" only to end up 40 years old without a baby or a daughter or a son that they really, really wanted and now will never have. I find that a lot of men postpone as a dishonest way of saying no and to my way of thinking, that's just as bad if not worse than a gal encouraging unprotected sex and crossing her fingers for an oopsie pregnancy.

[1moregirl]

This is a great friendly site - I've just bought my personalised plan from atomic and asked lots of questions already ! I always get a quick and honest response which is what I need to sway pink .. Ask as many as questions as u like we're not here to judge but to help [emoji5]️
Ps how lovely having two boys and a girl this is my dream for next year ! Hope u get ur dd to complete ur family too xxx


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Thanks soooo much Butterflies buttercups! It's soooo comforting and reassuring to know there are lovely accepting and supportive ladies on this website. I really hope that you get your DD and I will send some of my pink dust your way.

[1moregirl]

Imoregirl- I'm so sorry this person is giving you grief! I want to personally tell you that is NOT the norm around here! We all support each other and help each other, regardless of our situations or circumstances!

As a matter of fact, while TTCing this little guy (swayed girl), my DH pulled the plug several times. I had to resort to drastic measures until I found wearing something sexy did the trick for him to change his mind [emoji6]! No one judged me and no one should judge you! Only YOU know what your family and marriage can tolerate- no one else!

I just want to make it clear that this type of behavior is far from normal and please IGNORE it! Atomic and NBP will take care of things if it persists, trust me!!


DS1[emoji125]��, DS2[emoji577], DS3[emoji170][emoji577][emoji843][emoji602][emoji170] Jan. '16 I'll sway for a DD[emoji166][emoji171][emoji166] for my DH!!

Thanks soooo much for your support and kind words Xxforhubby. Perhaps I will put on something sexy and give him a glass of wine beforehand. Hehehe! He suffers from PE sometimes so maybe that will play in my favour as well. I really hope that you get your DD in the near future. You and I could well be making our attempts together as I was thinking of Jan 16 as well. Have you got your sway planned already or still working on it? What do you do for your sway? My last girl sway was based on IG stuff like calcium, magnesium and cranberry, etc but obv had the miscarriage so it didn't work out and I'll never know if it was a successful sway or not as far as gender goes (I didn't want to know anyway as obviously a loss is a loss of a baby and the gender is the least important thing).

[Butterflies buttercups]

Your welcome [emoji4]
Il be ttc in Feb so on my Le diet now and doing 4 days cardio building up to 6 days next month!
Thank u for the pink dust I definitely need it ![emoji175]
Xxx


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[Dreamingofpinkafter2blue]

My husband wants a 3rd and he hates temping and ovulation and all the pressure (and he rolls his eyes at swaying) but we are married and I have my period and he knows we are having unprotected sex. How does he think we got our last two? I had a chemical pregnancy last cycle and did not tell him just because I know it would worry him and stress him out.

[XXforhubby]

Thanks soooo much for your support and kind words Xxforhubby. Perhaps I will put on something sexy and give him a glass of wine beforehand. Hehehe! He suffers from PE sometimes so maybe that will play in my favour as well. I really hope that you get your DD in the near future. You and I could well be making our attempts together as I was thinking of Jan 16 as well. Have you got your sway planned already or still working on it? What do you do for your sway? My last girl sway was based on IG stuff like calcium, magnesium and cranberry, etc but obv had the miscarriage so it didn't work out and I'll never know if it was a successful sway or not as far as gender goes (I didn't want to know anyway as obviously a loss is a loss of a baby and the gender is the least important thing).

I'll be roughly 2mo PP in Jan. '16 so I will be doing things to decrease conception until I'm about 4mo PP. I'm only going to do the LE diet, exercise (I'll start cardio at 3mo PP if the weather has gotten better here by then), one attempt via BDing every 4-5 days, fiber (once he is 4-5mo), folic acid, and 1-3 alcoholic drinks per week with a meal (once he is 5-6 mo or when he starts solids), and I'll still be BFing. That's it. I may take Vitex to bring on AF if it doesn't come back early like with my other two boys.

I can't do opks or temp. It makes me to obsessive/controlling and keeps swaying in the forefront of my mind. I can't do that this time! I'm not too worried about it actually. After having done the LE diet before, I'll only need to track things for about a week, and I'll be right back to where I was. Laid back, what will be will be is my motto this time around. I actually don't think I can get pregnant BFing so while I will give my sway my all- I don't think I'll be able to get pregnant. We've never tried this early before. Time will tell!

Right now, and even then, I'll be looking to snuggle with my sweet DS3!! I can't wait to meet him! There is nothing like a newborn baby [emoji4]!!

FX and GL to you!!


DS1[emoji125]🏼, DS2[emoji577], DS3[emoji170][emoji577][emoji843][emoji602][emoji170] Jan. '16 I'll sway for a DD[emoji166][emoji171][emoji166] for my DH!!

[1moregirl]

So Xxforhubby - the only supp you'll be taking is the folic acid? How much do you plan on taking Hun? I'm thinking that's maybe all I would take too next time.