Am I Insane??

[CapricornAquarius]

I went a psychic several years ago with a friend of mine who had made 2 appointments for herself and another friend, then her friend couldn't make it- so I took it. I say this because the psychic had no idea who I was, could never have researched anything etc. I was to write down a few questions for him. He had me throw some strange dice and made this weird chart on a piece of paper and proceeded to tell me my exact birthday, the names of my parents, and several other astonishing facts and then spoke about my future... he told me I would have one child, a girl. Well, I had a boy and now I'm having 2 children. I say this because even psychics who are right about some things aren't right about everything.

You are very right!

They can never be 100% and Im pretty sure they never claim to be either.

Ive only ever been to a palm reader and that was 3yrs ago and although she has been so right with everything, she did say my 3rd would be a boy, but that Im yet to see.

DD1 DD2

[CapricornAquarius]

TTC5 - going back to your reading, I guess I'd only take her seriously if she was accurate with most of your reading, I always say go by your gut instinct, I know it can be tough, Im one to talk hey!!

[Cinss]

I have been looking into these gender charts too. It was correct for my daughter, so i am going to wait for the boy months to ttc, i have been waiting 6 months and have Dec, Jan, Feb to try for my boy. I see that many people on here disagree with the chart thing, but for my own peace of mind i am going to give it a shot, cant hurt right?

[CapricornAquarius]

I have been looking into these gender charts too. It was correct for my daughter, so i am going to wait for the boy months to ttc, i have been waiting 6 months and have Dec, Jan, Feb to try for my boy. I see that many people on here disagree with the chart thing, but for my own peace of mind i am going to give it a shot, cant hurt right?

Thats what I think we need to do, for our own piece of mind. And no its not hurting anyone maybe only us I guess cause we have to wait certain months.

OHHHH it was so much easier concieving my girls, I wish there was no such thing as swaying, then we'd just get what ever we were suppose to, or maybe this is just what happens anyway

[TTC5]

My goodness, see how this can drive someone bannanas

It is said that there's a reason behind everything we do, so you were meant to have this reading done, so perhaps wait till Feb.

My thoughts are, IF we try DEC/JAN and give birth in SEPTMEBER and it is a girl.. I will blame myself for not listening to that reading.. if I avoid those months and still have a girl then I know I did everything I could, and she was meant to be.

[TTC5]

TTC5 - going back to your reading, I guess I'd only take her seriously if she was accurate with most of your reading, I always say go by your gut instinct, I know it can be tough, Im one to talk hey!!

Well it is hard to say as she really only mentioned the september and girl then, then went on to tell me her personality etc so that I can't confirm hehe

[TTC5]

I have been looking into these gender charts too. It was correct for my daughter, so i am going to wait for the boy months to ttc, i have been waiting 6 months and have Dec, Jan, Feb to try for my boy. I see that many people on here disagree with the chart thing, but for my own peace of mind i am going to give it a shot, cant hurt right?

No that's right, it can't hurt at all. Although it can become stressful, lol trying to match everything up iykwim?

[CapricornAquarius]

My thoughts are, IF we try DEC/JAN and give birth in SEPTMEBER and it is a girl.. I will blame myself for not listening to that reading.. if I avoid those months and still have a girl then I know I did everything I could, and she was meant to be.

Now you can see why I just cant let go of the whole idea of my calendar, just incase!

If I just ttc any of the other months and I end up with another girl, I'll kick myself for not going by my calendar grrrrr and if I go by this calendar and still get a girl then I'll know she was meant to be also.

[Zivic-Bubac]

Ok this is my situation!
Ive had a lunar calendar made up for me

DD1 DD2

Does he say the whole October is 'boy month' or he gave you fertile days that may or may not match your actual O days?

This is the same with Dr Jonas calendar, they give you fertile days each month and they give 98-99% gender accuracy IF you conceive baby on those days. You are not supposed to have sex but on those 3 days they gave you.
If your actual O date don't match their dates, and you decide to try on your actual 'fertile window', they can't guarantee your baby's gender.

See my point? It's accurate only on THEIR dates, so maybe you can try on your actual O dates and your swaying will prevale kwim? However, if their and your O date match, pregnancy is practically innevitable.

Here is the site of the Odan Institute http://odan.jp/en/index.html , and they do the same thing. Gender calendar with your personal 3 fertile days (96% accuracy) is 24 euros and 99% which contains more detailed info is I think 77euros. It is basically your lunar fertility calendar based on Dr Jonas method.

Maybe, just for the piece of mind, you could order that 96% calendar and compare to your calendar?

HTH!!!! BTW, I'm obsessing like crazy about biorhytms

[LolaInLove]

Cap, I know what you mean....it is hard to ignore things you think may do the trick....I guess it is just up to you if you can wait. Nothing wrong with waiting if you have the patience for it. You can certainly have a great sway if you work on it for 6 months! Then again, I am not sure if I believe in that stuff. I had a psychic freak me out like Lindi and guess all this stuff about me. She said I have "2 of the 4, either the girls or the boys," and I obviously had 2 girls, so she said I'd have 2 more kids, boys. Of course, now I can't even get pregnant, so who knows. Gotta just go with what you feel most confident and comfortable with, and what can keep you and DH happy and not chomping at the bit to get on with it.