Due March/April/May 2017 (2)

[jdd1017]

This GD sucks!!! I can't believe I will never have a little girl!!!

How are you going today JDD?


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Oh the GD is awful!! I knew it was going to be hard if I heard boy, but I had no idea it would be this hard! I haven't cried since 9 this morning, which is surprising. I woke up at 1:30 AM and reality hit me and I couldn't fall back asleep and sobbed for about 3 hours on the couch, trying not to wake my family up lol. I am hoping with each passing day it will get easier, but it is going to be so difficult to hear people react to the news because so many people knew how badly I wanted a girl.

How about you Magical? Getting any better?


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[Magical22]

Oh the GD is awful!! I knew it was going to be hard if I heard boy, but I had no idea it would be this hard! I haven't cried since 9 this morning, which is surprising. I woke up at 1:30 AM and reality hit me and I couldn't fall back asleep and sobbed for about 3 hours on the couch, trying not to wake my family up lol. I am hoping with each passing day it will get easier, but it is going to be so difficult to hear people react to the news because so many people knew how badly I wanted a girl.

How about you Magical? Getting any better?


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I think it comes in waves, some moments I'm ok others not so much. It all just feels so unfair I don't understand how people who don't care what they have get Pigeion pairs so effortlessly I feel like I'm surrounded by them. I spent thousands of dollars trying HT which failed and failed again naturally, just feel like a failure.

I'm in a bit of pain the last 24 hours they think I might have gallstones or a gall bladder infection. I've had blood and an ultrasound this morning will see my GP this afternoon. Feels like there's a knife in my lower back.


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[jdd1017]

I think it comes in waves, some moments I'm ok others not so much. It all just feels so unfair I don't understand how people who don't care what they have get Pigeion pairs so effortlessly I feel like I'm surrounded by them. I spent thousands of dollars trying HT which failed and failed again naturally, just feel like a failure.

I'm in a bit of pain the last 24 hours they think I might have gallstones or a gall bladder infection. I've had blood and an ultrasound this morning will see my GP this afternoon. Feels like there's a knife in my lower back.


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Oh no!!! That sounds awful!!! I hope they figure out what is wrong soon and you get to feeling better ASAP!!!


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[Magical22]

As I feel up to it I have been messaging mine and DH family 1 by 1 telling them the news. They have all been really good about it wishing me huge congratulations. I think messaging everyone is a lot easier then telling everyone face to face incase they say something negative without thinking.


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[Magical22]

Talking to DH about my feelings he said I was selfish and reminded me that my sister can't even have kids. Ouch [emoji17]


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[XXforhubby]

Talking to DH about my feelings he said I was selfish and reminded me that my sister can't even have kids. Ouch [emoji17]


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Huge hugs, sweetie! Remember, some people just don't understand GD. It's not that they lack empathy, I think they have a hard time understanding that it is more than just the gender of the baby.

We are all here for you!



[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2[emoji602], DS3[emoji577][emoji170]
[emoji166]One last pink sway in 2016[emoji166]
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Sorry Magical.. that's a bit harsh of your DH

[3'sacharm]

I'm sad for everyone who is experiencing gender disappointment with this pregnancy. I feel like there are quite a few of us

My midwife told me today that my weight was OK at the moment but I needed to slow down. I was like wtf??? I've only gained 10 lbs and I'm almost halfway.
All I could think was gee thanks...

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Wtf indeed?!! I'm literally a stone heavier than I was at the beginning part of this year, albeit I gain about half a stone just before my bfp and I'm still within the healthy bmi range, but my weight gain is still a bit of a shock to me. If my mw told me that I think I'd cry!! I was weighed at my booking in appt but haven't been since by mw...

Sorry to hear some of you are feeling down/struggling, I don't know why the numbers appear to be so skewed on this due forum xx

[baby2016baby]

Hey guys, i have kept away as i felt i was bringing the mood down so im just catching up. Just wanted to say a huge congratulations to those lucky enough to get their dream gender. I hope you cherish every moment xxxxx

And I'm heartbroken to see more people have joined me in getting an opposite. It really is faith shaking. I've been through a few dd boards and there is a very high percentage of opposites, even if everyone waiting gets what they tried for, it's still a poor period. If anyone needs to rant or talk feel free to message me. There will be no judgement and nothing will shock me. I know alot of people have nobody irl who can understands or feels comfortable discussing things with. Nobody knows im pregnant but at 15 weeks i dont think i can last much longer. If it wasent for some people.of this site i honestly dont think i would be here at all, they know who they are, so i know how important support is. I hope every one is keeping well and pregnancy is being kind.

Quick update I've been diagnosed with severe antenatal depression which of course is purely gd. I was lucky enough to be given another scan which my councillor arranged as she thought it may help (after my first disastrous scan) My date got moved by another 4 days (so I've been put back 11 days over 3 scans) so it's obvious my dates were not wrong but baby is not growing as it should be. They are not too worried at this stage. Least I got a picture finally! I honestly still feel crap and i can't see that changing anytime soon. Although I had a tiny glimmer of something yesterday as I had a bad fall onto my tummy and for the first time I was actually worried that I might have hurt her, sadly it didn't last long and was replaced by my usual thoughts I'm not sure what the future hold for us but I just wanted to pop by and say I'm thinking of you all xxxx

[Burakoam]

Baby i can say at this point i know you (your heart is so big and ultimately full of compassion and love) and when she is on your chest you will love her so much and no that doesnt mean you will ever truly dull the pain of not having a son but in time she will be just as loved as your other 3 lovelies.

Magical i think your husband means well but yes that was overly harsh. I think the men who loves us often feel that they are responsible for bringing us back to 'reality' when all we really need is for them to hug us and tell us everything will be alright and that they understand. (even if we know they probably dont, just hearing the man or woman we love say those things to us helps tremendously)

JDD i am hoping the tech was wrong and at your anatomy scan you get better news. Really.

Everywhere i look everyone is in agreement sways this year arent what they were in previous years but nobody really seems to want to talk about what may be at the root of all of it. I heard pink was still doing great but i agree to me it seems more 50/50 at this point for pink while blue has been abysmal...and getting blamed on swayers as opposed to thinking since even pink is taking a small hit..which is still a hit..that maybe things need flipped on both sides. All it would take IMO is to look at what things are shared between the two because if you're getting alot of blue with pink and alot of pink with blue there has to be a common denominator..

For anyone that reads this, and i expect i'll have an argument used against me, i would not use pre seed when TTC blue right now. Me, baby, and at least one other who got pink were using pre seed. For my last baby which was also a girl i also used pre seed. It may be a manufacturer issue...things change in 'formulas' all the time and the general public may not be aware of it right away.