UK SMOG Wannabes - November (moved from PL)

**charlieispy** · October 27th, 2011, 05:41 AM

wishing - just start checking it regularly you will learn what is soft/firm high/low it will change a little throughout the day but when mine is round O i cant reach it x also learn to check your cm

**littlemisswilko** · October 27th, 2011, 05:54 AM

Originally Posted by charlieispy

Indigo - test girl test

deaks - FX for you hun x

littlemiss - how are the opks going??

Morning girls!!!

opks arnt getting much darker yet and no

as of yet!!!

**littlemisswilko** · October 27th, 2011, 05:59 AM

deaks hope you enjoy your getaway to cornawall. at least it will take your mind off the 2ww

petal - due date today! got my fingers crossed for you and will be thinking of you loads! You have to post pics of him asap!!!

**deaks66** · October 27th, 2011, 06:06 AM

Wishing - i have only just got the hang of my cervix this cycle and last cycle! I noticed last cycle that during ov it went extremely high and so soft it was really squidgey. This cycle it went the same softness again but i didn't notice it going as high. Height is tricky though and it could be that it went high and back in-between my checks or perhaps it just didn't go as high. TMI, but I have noticed and also read that your cervix can be prevented from going high if your bowel is quite full!! anyway it just shows that height is much more unreliable that texture/firmness! With mine if i am unsure if its soft then it probably isn't as when it is soft it feels very different! HTH's!

**deaks66** · October 27th, 2011, 06:06 AM

Petal - thinking of you today, hope little man doesn't keep you waiting too long!

**pinga** · October 27th, 2011, 06:29 AM

I'm trying to read everyones posts... but its 9.30pm and my eyes are blurring.... I'm SOOoooooooo tired! Am starting to notice how tired I'm feeling. Also I ate a piece of cheese today... shortly after I was standing there doing the washing up and I thought... OMG... I feel decidedly queasy!! Kind of makes me a tiny bit happy... am I mad?

Anyways - hope you are all good. you'll have to forgive me... I'm going to bed.... 9.30 and I'm passing out...

**rainbowflower** · October 27th, 2011, 06:57 AM

Originally Posted by charlieispy

to be honest i am still in shock - seriously in all the groups i have been in i have always been last or one of the last. I suppose that adds to my worrying about this pregnancy as for me it es easy to get....silly i know but!

noo don't worry, enjoy it! it's obviously meant to be

**rainbowflower** · October 27th, 2011, 08:11 AM

would you say this test is a pos OPK? (both using the same pee, although I'd been holding it in literally all morning

**deaks66** · October 27th, 2011, 08:12 AM

Originally Posted by rainbowflower

would you say this test is a pos OPK? (both using the same pee, although I'd been holding it in literally all morning

Personally i would say that they are very nearly positive but not quite. Could you get hold of a smiley digi to check?

**Petal** · October 27th, 2011, 08:20 AM

Hi girls, thanks for all your messages :-) no sign of anything yet! yes, will defo post pics when i figure out how to do it, took me 7 months to sort out my ticker!!! LOL.

Maybe, i TOTALLY understand how you feel :-( when i found out ds3 was a boy at 16 weeks i was absoloutly devestated as you all probably remember, i felt cheated and wish i hadnt of bothered trying for a 3rd. The hardest thing by a million miles is the comments by others, i sometimes wish i had been open about the sex but whats done is done, im glad i know he's a boy, i dont think i could deal with the emotions at birth. I suggest you get some really good come back replies ready so you make the people saying stupid things feel bad and not you! Ive had quite a lot of hurtful things said to me and i wish i had the balls to snap back at them.
Anyway, my little boy is due today and i promise promise promise you that by the time your liitle man is due you will have no sadness at all, im soo suprised in myself at how different i feel from 20 weeks ago, even if i could change him into a girl right now, i wouldnt, i want my boy more than anything, if people want to feel sorry for me then let them, i feel sorry for them for being such idiots!!!!

As soon as i found out he was a boy i also started thinking and looking into PGD, i think this was my way of healing my sadness, ive had contact with some clinics in cyprus but im not so desperate to have a girl as i was 20 weeks ago, time is a great healer and if we ever choose to go down the pgd route it will be when the time is right, i did want to go next year but now im not so bothered, if it happens it happens.
Sorry to ramble on, just want to let you know im here for you and i feel you are living my life 20 weeks ago, it may not seem like it now but you WILL feel better soon.
Lots of hugs to you maybe x x x x

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