Anyone else?

[atomic sagebrush]

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[ABC.2606]

Me!!!! We're going to do our 1 attempt tonight and I'm totally concerned I haven't done enough I had a miscarriage in August and when I got BFP then I was sure I hadn't done enough too!! I've now been swaying for 7 months, have lost almost 40 lbs, am doing mostly 5 days/week of cardio, have had a recent miscarriage, am drinking lots of coffee and alcohol, and am on my first cycle of Clomid... and I STILL feel so nervous!!! Mainly I see how strict some people on here are with the diet - in terms of what they are eating, how often, and I don't feel like mine has measured up to that. That said, it seems like I've seen several super strict diets on here result in failed sways while more relaxed ones have resulted in girls... So, it's just never a sure thing no matter what you do, and I think that's the thing - the fact that there are just elements that I can't control that make me the most nervous.

Hang in there though. I'm sure you're doing great!

[Prayingforagirl67]

Congratulations on your BFP! I have not started trying and am already criticizing my sway constantly! My sway has definitely become all consuming also and that's the one thing that has really been bothering me as well! Although I'm sure plenty of women conceived girls even while being super stressed out, we are not perfect and can only do the best that we can! Hoping all worked out for you with your sway!

[Prayingforagirl67]

So nice to know I'm not the only one stressing over here(as if I'm the only stressed woman on the planet hahah congrats on your little girl, here's to hoping this sway works out

[Prayingforagirl67]

I am so very sorry to hear about your misscariage, I honestly don't even have the words!
Just from what you have written I feel like you have a pretty strong sway! You're totally right, I've been seeing some people's sway (like the ones who got their girl) and I just think oh there's no way my sway even compares, I'm totally not going to get my girl! But then I think about all the women who have no idea what swaying even is getting girls. It's so hard not knowing and trying your best in hopes of the result you want, it's very stressful!
I hope your sway works for you! Best of luck

[HopingForHairbows]

When I swayed in 2014 I felt exactly like you. I was so concerned that I would do something wrong and it would completely ruin my sway. The feeling got worse after my BFP and leading up to my ultrasound. I tried to relax, telling myself that the baby already was what it was going to be, and that no amount of worry would change things, but it was still difficult. So, I totally understand your feelings.
Despite that I will still say Congrats on your BFP, and try to relax and enjoy this time as much as you can!

[atomic sagebrush]

Me!!!! We're going to do our 1 attempt tonight and I'm totally concerned I haven't done enough I had a miscarriage in August and when I got BFP then I was sure I hadn't done enough too!! I've now been swaying for 7 months, have lost almost 40 lbs, am doing mostly 5 days/week of cardio, have had a recent miscarriage, am drinking lots of coffee and alcohol, and am on my first cycle of Clomid... and I STILL feel so nervous!!! Mainly I see how strict some people on here are with the diet - in terms of what they are eating, how often, and I don't feel like mine has measured up to that. That said, it seems like I've seen several super strict diets on here result in failed sways while more relaxed ones have resulted in girls... So, it's just never a sure thing no matter what you do, and I think that's the thing - the fact that there are just elements that I can't control that make me the most nervous.

Hang in there though. I'm sure you're doing great!

People who are starving themselves and miserable are doing the diet WRONG, not right. Never compare to them.

[Prayingforagirl67]

It's so nerve wrecking knowing what you want, and hoping that you are doing enough to help make that happen! I'm hoping for this sway to work as it may be my last child so very stressful! Thank you for your response, so happy your sway worked out for you!!