Part 3: Due January, February and March 2019

[Girlswaylondon]

Noemi it’s really not accurate at all at 11 weeks! Surprised the doctor is allowed to even mention it!


Beautiful pic!!!! <3

[ABC.2606]

Girls I'm joined to a private FB DDG from my DS2. We're a small group, of 20 but as with all groups of women you always find at least one you don't get along particularly well with. For me, we'll call her Josie. (No offense to any Josies out there!)
So We just have sick different styles of parenting. She toilet trains the second her kids turn 2. They can't have a pacifier or sippy cup or bottle beyond 12 months. She sends them to a minder at 6 weeks old despite the fact she's off work til they are at least 6 months old.
I just don't see eye to eye but in saying that I'd never openly criticise.
So today she posts about a friend of hers who just had a missed miscarriage. She was 13 weeks but there wasn't so much as a sac there when the tech scanned her according to this girl. Anyway, I commented saying I felt so sorry for her having the mc like that. And this girl replies saying that just cause you've got morning sickness doesn't mean you're safe. And I said what's that supposed to mean to which she replied that her friend had sickness and it's not an indication that everything is ok. I said I'd seen the sac and HB at 6 weeks and I'm sick as a small hospital. She replies "oh well you never know" It just got me so angry! Like, tell me. Is she trying to get my back up and make me paranoid? I had a mc last year which she knows about so surely she knows I'm sensitive to the topic, like most women are whether they've had one or not!
Anyway, don't be minding me. I had to rant somewhere. Sorry it's to you guys!!

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OMG how rude!!!! Especially as she knows you’ve had a m/c in the past! After 3 m/c myself I have no tolerance for people who say crappy or insensitive things to women who’ve had them! Even if you hadn’t had one that’s terrible to try to make someone feel worried about their baby! Ugh. Can I tell her to shut up on your behalf? [emoji38]


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[Noemi2017]

Tp i really hope so and pray for his mistake with gender still Team green but im convinced it is boy.

[Girlswaylondon]

Also I’ve heard of gender being wrong at 16 weeks let alone 11!!

[Noemi2017]

Hello Girlsway, so happy to hear about u. How r u? Im so looking forward to seeing your baby girl in OctoberThx u and we will see in March if not now i hope one day i will become mother of my baby girl

[Girlswaylondon]

Hello Girlsway, so happy to hear about u. How r u? Im so looking forward to seeing your baby girl in OctoberThx u and we will see in March if not now i hope one day i will become mother of my baby girl

Thanks Hun, I’m huge now and definitely ready to meet her! Third trimester is hard work haha! Glad to hear your sickness is gone

[Throwaway_panther]

Abc thx u so much. Doctor is expert about scans with my son he was 100% sure it is boy in the same week. Now i didnt want to know but when he said he saw it very well so we immediately thought he saw boy parts

Remember even a broken clock is right twice a day how he and things like the SneakPeak test seem accurate is because it's always 50/50, and the "happened to guess right" always sticks out to us!

[Eighme]

Remember even a broken clock is right twice a day how he and things like the SneakPeak test seem accurate is because it's always 50/50, and the "happened to guess right" always sticks out to us!

Exactly! Also, thanks TP! Your response earlier helped. Fingers crossed that your intuition hasn't given out on you just yet for me!

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[hopper]

Thanks TP and ABC re the comments from "Josie". I left it go and just stopped replying and about 20 mins ago I got a PM from her saying she didn't mean to come across insensitive and acts "dopey" sometimes....hmm! I didn't reply to that either. She's just really annoyed me. She has two girls and I know she had GD for a boy since her first DD but she totally denies it and always has. So maybe she is subconsciously lashing out?! I dunno. Either way I'm done with her for today anyway. Normally I'd let comments flow off my back - it's mad how pregnancy can make your mind blow things up!!

Noemi, I'm so so so sure that nubs don't become apparent until 12-13 weeks so please don't let the scan take away your hope. I really hope you will hear what you want at a later scan. When is your next? Congrats on your beautiful baby by the way! Such a great scan pic [emoji179]

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[ABC.2606]

Hi ladies. I’ve just bee quieting lurking as well.
I got my nipt results back and they were all low risk which is excellent. I didn’t call my obs office to find out gender...but it is doing my head in knowing it’s written on a piece of paper in my file! Lol!
I’m a radiographer so have access to sonographers at work. I got one of my friends to scan me the other day just to check all is good anatomically because we’re not doing the 13wk scan. All was good... I think I may have seen boy bits but not 100%. My friend assured me that she didn’t see and that even at this gestation (12wks) girls can be quite swollen. So who knows... it did set off some gd though. Don’t get me wrong I’m so happy all is going well, and we still want to stay team green but gee the desire for a girl is real. Deep down I know whatever this little one is, that they are what is meant for our family.
My headaches have still been coming around every 4 weeks, lasting 4 days. So painful. Only just getting over this last one. And to top it off I had conjunctivitis and now am getting a cold. Ahh the joys.


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BAH! Sorry Mumma I read your post last night and forgot to respond but it's so good to hear from you and to hear that baby is doing well! You are REALLY strong to not find out the gender knowing that it's in your NIPT report!!! That was my plan too - to do the NIPT, let the doctor find out and then wait a while until we found out... but I totally caved and looked up my online NIPT report that evening after the doctor had called me to let me know the results came back! No will power at all I think it's reassuring your sonographer friend said she really couldn't see any boy parts!!! And as we've been saying just now about Noemi's scan, if you were only 12 weeks it really is still too early to be sure!! Hoping you hear pink!

I so admire all you ladies going Team Green!!! You all have waaaaaaay more patience than I do!!!