swayers over 35 buddy group

[amari]

Lemon-

I'm so new to all of this I don't know. How long have you been on the diet and supps?

[amari]

Why are you not ovulating? age? other health reason?

I'm not sure, all my blood work came back normal. My husband thinks it's my weight, I am 100lbs and was 110 prior to my last son. But I was 105 before both of them and had a period and O'd, but I was younger then too, so who knows!

[Flava]

amari- welcome here! Goodl luck to get your baby girl!

sweetsister-Im sorry for AF...Im so freaking fat I so wish the girl diet would give us boy so i can be thin!

[HopeandDreamG]

Lemon-

I'm so new to all of this I don't know. How long have you been on the diet and supps?

6 weeks

[LolaInLove]

Hi Lola - yes, the m/c was just two nights ago, so I'm still feeling quite raw emotionally. Planning my next sway is really helping, though.

OH good lord, that is recent. I am so sorry.....I really had a painful time with mine at about 10wks. My doctors office called me in a prescription painkiller. I hate to ask you these sensitive questions, but are you having any of the tissue analyzed? Just tell yourself, like I did, that this one was not meant to be, and that your baby is on her way soon. Glad to hear thinking ahead about your next sway is helping...I think it is so beneficial to just grieve it and then move to the future, because you will be there very soon and things will go just fine. My inspiration is 3P1B (on the boy boards) who had a horrible m/c and is now pg with her dg and doing just wonderful. Still, big hugs now, try to pamper yourself a bit. xxoo

[LolaInLove]

Mocha, I was seriously depressed to leave all of you DD buddies when I miscarried. I spent so much time w/you all and then all of the sudden, it felt like I lost my pals too.

Oh, I am so sorry about yours also, OOTB. I remember when you had that surprise pg. Hope you are doing ok also. Jeez, doesn't it make you appreciate the miracle of life and the kids we have so much to see so many have losses, which are totally normal and a part of life? BIG FX that your next shot works beautifully as well, you totally deserve that.

I am also glad this site is so friendly and open....no judgement!

[LolaInLove]

Indigo - nice to see you hear!

How long did you wait after your m/c before trying to conceive again? I'm planning to wait until my first period, but after some calculations realised that might bring me to a Christmas/Boxing Day O-date!! That would be veeery tricky since we'll be staying in my in-laws' packed house. I'm tempted to try as soon as I ovulate instead, but I'm so scared that will up my chances of another m/c.

My doctor told me to wait and have 3 full cycles, that way my lining would be totally normal again. It was actually a very nice break and we concentrated on eating well and taking a bunch of supps. Of course, nothing has happened since then and now we have the male factor infertility diagnosis with my DH's crappy sperm count, so not expecting much, but still trying. I guess it depends, some wait and some don't. If you have another u/s after everything is complete and your lining looks good, I don't think it would be bad to try right away, or at least wait one month.

[Mochagirl]

Thanks, Lola. No - we didn't have any tissue analysed (I had the whole m/c at home). It was clear the baby had died some time ago and it had been reabsorbed (all I passed were clots), so I feel confident thinking it was a chromosomal abnormality.

[amari]

Sorry for your losses. I hope having this board helps some.

Hoping to get to know you all better!

[indigoviolet]

Thanks for your welcome ladies

Mocha- I ttc straight away but I had to have a D&C so the lining was SO thin (AF the following month was very light) so it was impossible to conceive I think. I carried on ttc and got pg 3rd month of trying. I don't think there is any reason to wait, especially as it was a natural m/c and if you feel ready. Good luck hun.

Flava- keeping my fingers tightly crossed for you too!