Advice pls re DH

[Alicewonder]

Oh crud, did I miss understand my DH had previously lots a lot of weight and was wondering if he should loose more? thought he was to loose more? Previously Was like 50- 60lbs. Last checked he's over 200 lbs. he's might be like 5' 7" not sure he's taller then me (everyone's taller then me it seems except my brother ha!)

[atomic sagebrush]

Soy isn't that great for sperm quality either. Without a side by side study to compare the two and their effect on sperm quality (and gender conceived) then I honestly cannot give you an answer. I think either/both may damage sperm both present and being formed.

[mariposa]

Thank you very much for your honesty. Probably I shouldn't give him anything, but it's very difficoult to me to drop things....

[Alicewonder]

This is true and I generally do not recommend weight loss for this reason BUT if a guy were already in decent shape and lost a fair bit of weight, it could help. If he is heavy to begin with, better to hold steady where he's at - body fat on DH can help a pink sway.

Sorry, should've quoted this when I commented

[atomic sagebrush]

Oh crud, did I miss understand my DH had previously lots a lot of weight and was wondering if he should loose more? thought he was to loose more? Previously Was like 50- 60lbs. Last checked he's over 200 lbs. he's might be like 5' 7" not sure he's taller then me (everyone's taller then me it seems except my brother ha!)

the rules are different when a husband has lost a SIGNIFICANT amount of weight. most guys can't lose 25+ lbs plus before a sway, and losing/gaining small amounts of weight may not help. But your husband had already lost a ton of weight and he's fine to continue to lose more. He will lose some muscle mass when he does.

[atomic sagebrush]

Sorry, should've quoted this when I commented

Your husband had ALREADY lost a lot of weight, so the rules are different for him.