How many times can a sway fail?

[atomic sagebrush]

I have 2 failed sways, one a rough IG and one my mistaken understanding of GD HE, this time I got a personalized plan but I think this pregnancy will be my third failed sway. I have had 5 attempts in a row at trying to conceive boy (this pregnancy included). I kept saying maybe this time, maybe this time, surely this time.
I give up now but happily !!

I know a family of 6 girls and they are the most amazing ladies I know!!

[Dreamofpink]

Do you know what Atomic, I think I'm mixing my user names up 😮 It's Myrainbowbaby isn't it that's expecting her fifth & first girl. Sorry! D'oh!

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[atomic sagebrush]

Oh that's great too!!! I have a terrible time with user names (as you already know haha) even people I'm good friends with, I don't always recognize their user name without seeing the avatar/siggie.

[mandyp85]

She's now expecting her first girl in a few months after leaving it up to fare this time & despite eating a blue-friendly diet 😉
I swayed very hard with ds3 (my first sway) and know that it was my undoing. It was on my mind from when I woke to when I went to bed, even making sure that I didn't wear blue knickers or pjs around ov time in case it influenced things [emoji15] This time (I'm 10 weeks) I'd changed my lifestyle & only stuck to no snacking & skipping brekkie. I had cut out dairy 18 months prior for my bf baby so then cut out meat & fish in Feb '15. No cal/fat/pro counting, had started drinking coffee 18 months prior too & drank 1 alcoholic drink a night. I wasn't even tracking ov as I was bf my 20 month old so much & af had only just come back. I thought I'd ov'd the week beford but stress delayed it & I got the pg the week after with one shot after a long abstinence (DH & I were having many arguments over whether to have dc4) & with a jump & dump. We'll see in Jan what my first ever oopsie brings.

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This is what I'm planning to do next time, I'm going to start my sway in good time in the hope that by the time I'm wanting to conceive it will be second nature and I no longer have to think about the exercise and diet etc ill just bd whenever and just go with the flow. I know in a sense thats still maybe trying to maintain a sense of control as its a "plan" but I'm hoping if I'm more relaxed and at ease with what I'm doing that it wont be on my mind constantly and I will let the control go. Good luck to you, I hope you get your girl.

[Princess Mom]

I think if I try again for a baby, I won't be swaying , I will just hope for the best.
Or maybe a light sway I had a pretty good sway but had a miscarriage and for some reason I have a feeling it was a boy. I won't ever know though so,

[Throwaway_panther]

My first sway was an IG sway. I'm not surprised it failed.
My second sway was 6 weeks of LE and couch potato (at the time if you were thin it was recommended to go "hard-core" for a shorter period of time.) Failed again.
My third sway was technically 13 weeks even though I had been swaying on and off for over a year before that. I did 4 days of cardio every week. I cheated too much so I'm not surprised that I am more than likely expecting my fourth boy (my intuition has yet to be wrong, I just know it's another boy).
Are there any ladies who have swayed FOUR times and failed every time? I plan on doing a 12+ week sway, 7 days a week of cardio, and absolutely NO cheats. The one attempt thing isn't hard and I've done that for two sways now. I don't know what else to do to try to get one last PERFECT sway in? I'm still very early in this pregnancy so it'll be a year before I sway again, but DH says no more after #5. I'm trying to figure out what I'll do now so I have it ready once baby comes (I'll be TTC very soon after baby is born-6mn PP). What am I doing wrong and what can I add to help my last sway? I'm hoping in a years time there will be even more info on this site that will help my sway finally be successful!

I know this is old, but your intuition and dreams were wrong right?! Based on sig, you got your GD?