Raezodal TTC a GIRL Sway Attempt

[Pbn3]

Congratulations Raezodal! Sending pink vibes!

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[Faithinpink]

Huge congratulations, I hope you hear pink.
Best of luck xo

[Raezodal]

Saw clear as day yesterday, it's a BOY.

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[atomic sagebrush]

Oh Rae, I'm sorry it didn't go our way. How can I help????

[Raezodal]

Oh Rae, I'm sorry it didn't go our way. How can I help????

Awww thanks. I don't think you can. I know how slowly my body recovers, and expect it to be at least 2 years after baby is born before I ovulate again (with my 4 so far, I didn't ovulate till 10months pp with first, 12 with 2nd, 18 with 3rd and 24 with 4th). Right now, I can't fathom it. This baby will start kindergarten when my oldest is in grade 11. I can't imagine having one in kindergarten and 1 moved out in college. I might change my mind, but for now.... I'm still young enough but I'm getting older, lol. And given my mother in law told my husband he should have gotten a vasectomy after ds4 was born when we told her we were expecting, I don't know I want to even think about any more: how on board would dh really be when he was happy with 4. I'm not as upset as I worried I would be. Hard to see literally everyone I know who is pregnant now having girls - my sister in law, 2 cousins, old neighbour's daughter.... I don't know. I knew it was a long shot for me, I have too many dietary restrictions to start with so even though I stayed within fat/protein/carb limits, I had to eat too many foods on the "boy friendly" list. My biggest fear has been never feeling like my family is complete and I worry, still, that that will remain the case. My boys are excited for another brother, not sure how they would have reacted to a sister, honestly, so I know it will be okay. I wish it could have been a different outcome, always felt like there as a little girl out there for us, but I know that when I look at the boys I have, there isn't one that I can honestly say "I wish you had been a girl". Before some were born, yes, but once they were here and I got to know them...that lessened until eventually it vanished. So, I know I will love this boy for who he is and it is just right now when I can say "I wish you were a girl". I wish we could have had a girl, but just don't see how that is possible anymore.

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[atomic sagebrush]

I completely understand and FWIW I have seen plenty of women who moved on with their boys instead of continuing to try and they ALL look like they are having tons of fun and enjoying life. I think we lose sight of the fact that we do miss out on things when we're in the baby and small kid stages that are really rewarding to us on a personal level. Wishing you the very best moving forward with your unique and special family.