Surprise BFP and wondering what my diets sways towards

[atomic sagebrush]

I do want to shed some (rather gross) light on the pullout issue. Apologies for TMI!

My husband and I have used pullout + avoiding fertile window for a long time successfully as birth control and we have had an experience where sometimes he will have a fair amount come out without actually having an orgasm. He says it is something to do with the pulling out, like it starts to happen and then he kinda panics and stops and/or pulls out, and the O stops in its tracks but some teeny Elvises leave the building anyway. I have actually seen it happen and it would 100% for sure be enough to get someone pregnant. He can O right after that and then make a second batch (somewhere he is dying of embarrassment right now without knowing why!!) He says it doesn't really feel like anything other than trying to not have an orgasm, and if he wouldn't have been relatively expert at pulling out, he could be tricked by it in the heat of the moment. I suspect that many times when people are getting pregnant from pullout it may be this phenomenon going on and he may not realize it even happened, he could still pull out and O right after it happened without ever even knowing that he had shot a load in there if that makes sense.

[lala22]

Lol. That all makes sense. Only hubby is super sure of his pull out skills and we've used it for years with success too. I don't know..it could be a million different things including human error. I wish I knew. Haha

[lala22]

Actually, after re reading your message you triggered a memory of him almost having an orgasm and saying the " OK don't move " comment. I don't recollect when it happened exactly but could have been close to ov. So we will go ahead and blame this oops on him. Lol

My husband too is probably dying of embarrassment without knowing why.

[bre_cooper11]

I do want to shed some (rather gross) light on the pullout issue. Apologies for TMI!

My husband and I have used pullout + avoiding fertile window for a long time successfully as birth control and we have had an experience where sometimes he will have a fair amount come out without actually having an orgasm. He says it is something to do with the pulling out, like it starts to happen and then he kinda panics and stops and/or pulls out, and the O stops in its tracks but some teeny Elvises leave the building anyway. I have actually seen it happen and it would 100% for sure be enough to get someone pregnant. He can O right after that and then make a second batch (somewhere he is dying of embarrassment right now without knowing why!!) He says it doesn't really feel like anything other than trying to not have an orgasm, and if he wouldn't have been relatively expert at pulling out, he could be tricked by it in the heat of the moment. I suspect that many times when people are getting pregnant from pullout it may be this phenomenon going on and he may not realize it even happened, he could still pull out and O right after it happened without ever even knowing that he had shot a load in there if that makes sense.

Now that DH and I are on a 2-4 dtd regular pattern this has happened a few times now (but he has successfully pulled out). He said, especially when we pull out, that he comes in waves (he would die knowing I was typing this)... partially because he is holding back too. This is true with DD#2, we were both drinking, I was more under the influence than he, and that may have had an effect!

[atomic sagebrush]

Actually, after re reading your message you triggered a memory of him almost having an orgasm and saying the " OK don't move " comment. I don't recollect when it happened exactly but could have been close to ov. So we will go ahead and blame this oops on him. Lol

My husband too is probably dying of embarrassment without knowing why.

YES exactly, that's exactly the type of situation. He pulls out and nobody even DOES anything and then a little blurp comes out. After this subject kept coming up on here I interrogated him all about it and he says it doesn't feel like an O and then he can go onto have an actual O within like 30 seconds (which he couldn't if it had been a real one of course).