September TTC Boy Chit Chat and Such Thread

[Tink18]

omg. Lola. i am so upset for you. how are you feeling with this? i really wish i.could hug you now.

[TTC5]

I am worried they are messed up also. I don't know. They don't test the sperm for being chomosomally abnormal, just the count and motility and if there is infection or something. The only result in was the count, which my doctor felt the need to tell me about right away. She said the motility looked ok from what she could tell, but they didn't have all of the numbers in yet. She said they test the blood cell counts or something to see if infection is there.

2 million is still a shit load of sperm when all that is needed is just ONE.. and if he has normal motility I have faith you will get pregnant AGAIN xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

[TTC5]

begonia-thanksI did not have a -opk yesterday it was this morning .I did not hold pee for long I think. Then I did the TBM (just because the stip from the CB monitor was so dark)
But after the neg. I was holding it for a long time and got another smiley. So third day now ! And this is why Im angry that we did not wait till nigh that would have been a 1 day abstinence and not just half. I would have waited if the first test was a plus!

Lola -can't do another one tonight because I don't want another 12 hour in between only ...

I would seriously go again tonight!! xx

[TTC5]

Thanks Z!
Yeah I guess I posted to much about it... I kinda wish I didn't but it's only because Im so nervous and scared it will not work again.
You right we need more sperm and not less so we will do it. But I think tonight would be to late so we do it now. But we are so tired and 2 of my DD are home so we will do a TBM this time.
Ok no more post about our BD because it's over.

Sorry for all the post everyone.

Don't be sorry this is what we are here for!!! xoxox

[TTC5]

Im not worried about the timing! Im worried about the sperm count! Thinking it will be low because there is only half day abstinence for DH. So do i want to send up all that pink swimmers there? ( im thinking there would be more girls in the group)
But on the other hand O is like right now so this may not matter at all because they would be late to get to the egg anyway. So if I would get a bfp it would be from the BD on CD 15...like a 1 time try.We also did CD 11 and 13 but I think that is way to before O to hang around up there. DH says he think they are there. Of course he thinks like this about his strong sperms.

I don't think that because you have less time between intercourse it means there would be more girl sperm I think it would still be 50/50 JMHO xx

[Flava]

Well I told DH that you guys saying to DTD again tonight and he said ok. wow I thought he will be like no way!
he said what kind of a website is this , everyone is horny? Im starting to get suspicious ! Im going to find a DH site and talk about all this too!
Of course he was just joking but we are laughing all night now.

So we may try 1 more...this better work because there is no way I ever in my life had such a sperm count up there!

[Hobbermittens]

Flava, your DH is funny! Hope all goes well tonight and you have LOTS of blue swimmers up there!!

[LolaInLove]

I say go for it again, Flava!

Thanks again everyone, I appreciate your sweetness. I feel hopeless and like our dream is over, to be honest. I really really hate how badly DH feels, though. I've tried to be extra sweet and let him know it's not his fault. Like he can control his sperm count. Hell, the guy's been eating whatever I tell him too, quit smoking a while ago, taking a buttload of supps twice a day. He can't do anything more.

I just hate the thought of having to ttc for years on end, and it may not even happen. My sister says, well, you gotta have hope and just keep trying....but how long can you do that? I guess we may need to find a happy place with it, where we have a nice level lifestyle and I'll need to drop swaying, at least the HE diet, but just gear up for years of trying if necessary.

Ya know, TTC5, I keep thinking the same thing....a million is a lot, right? Well, apparently a normal count is 40-60 million and tens of millions die en route. It's apparently a treacherous journey. So, that's where my odds go way, way down. But, you guys are right, I do need to keep hope. One sperm, albeit probably an f'ed up one, has made it before.

I just don't know WHYYYYYYY this has to happen to me. I have the meanest ass ex-dh ever, then finally make my way free and manage to find the love of my life, and all we want is a baby.....not money, not fame, not anything but a freaking baby. And we get this. I having a shake fist at heavens day. Sorry for the rant!

[Flava]

Oh Lola you can rant as much as you want! I would do the same and I would be so sad to and crying all day for sure!
I hope that they can help with something for your DH to higher the count and you guys don't have to think of IVF.
I know there is so many die on the way swimming up but if he only got 2 million out of 40 and STILL got pregnant then he must have some very good ones in there!

[3Pink1Blue]

Oh Lola rant away! I know you're upset, go home, have a real good cry and things will look better tomorrow. I know it's been a long journey but at least you have an answer. Think of how frustrated you would be to find out you are both perfectly healthy. Wait for the full results, stick to the sups and see what the Dr. says. I'm sure there's something to be done besides IVF. Big hug to you both Fwiw ita with everyone, you'll get your babe!

Flava- yeah we are kinda sex obsessed here aren't we lol