Possibly starting early???

[Callmecrazy]

So my original plan was to start ttc on August, as I would like a spring baby and that was when babyman predicted girl for me. I have sept, nov and feb babies. Anecdotally babyman has been the most accurate for people I know, and has been right for my other three, so I figure it wouldn't hurt to trust it again. After re-checking my months because I may not ovulate in aug, July shows girl as well, since due date would be before my bday. Another plus is that DH would be home from july 1-7, and I would be fertile from 4-9 making timing for a girl perfect because he would leave before O. Otherwise I will have to go on the rd with him in August. Not 100% yet that we will be able to do that. So, would you move up ttc?? I am super nervous for some reason....

[Callmecrazy]

Bump*

[atomic sagebrush]

I'm sorry, I swear I answered this, not sure what happened there??

I would 110% without a doubt TTC in July if I felt good about my diet otherwise.

[auroara78]

I agree, I would give July a try too!!

[Callmecrazy]

Thanks for your responses!
Did anyone else get nervous before they actually followed through with trying to conceive?

[atomic sagebrush]

YES!!!

[auroara78]

Big time!

My boys were opps accidents, so actually *trying* to me felt somehow wrong, lol...I don't know why, but I kept asking myself "are you suuuuuuree you wanna do this?"

When I got pregnant on accident x2, I just felt like they were "meant to be here" so I had more of a confidence about it. But having to put myself in that position ....it was kind of tough on my psyche for a bit there...like what am I bringing upon myself?

I can say now that I'm 25 weeks pregnant despite my reservations at first and a mild depression after getting a BFP, I am very, very happy that I got pregnant and am having this sweet baby!

[Callmecrazy]

Thanks for your response! The biggest fear I think is telling everyone. Since this will be #4 and you know how that goes. Also really nervous because it's our last. While I'm going to try hard to sway for a girl I have I think come to terms with having a boy.

[NCBeachyGrl]

I am in the same boat as you! I had it in my mind that we would start TTC at the end of July and I have now decided to push it up to the end of June/beg. of July. I am so nervous for so many reasons! I KNOW that we want a 3rd, but I get really nervous actually thinking what that will be like. I also worry about the reaction of ppl too. My family thinks that anything past having 2 kids is just crazy! But, I know what is right for me and my family and I am just going to not let it bother me!!

[atomic sagebrush]

Y'know, I have discovered something recently...once people are SURE you're crazy, they are nicer and more accepting of you than when they think you're kind of sane. I thought I was going to take some major heat about having a baby at my age but it was like people were all "hey, whatever works!" I got a lot more flack for my DS 3 than I did for this baby. Embrace the crazy LOL!!