What about this reaction to a u/s?

[Damienne]

My SL, she knows by tonight THE gender of her baby, but now she wont tell us! Arrgg..
before the u/s she said she would tell it, and she hoped and was for sure that she was pregnant with à boy, but after the u/s she doesnt tell the gender! After 2 girls....What do you think about this reaction? Is she disaponted? Is that why she wont tell us the gender? I think when i would have my dream gender after all that i would screen it around!!
Does this mean she gets a third girl?

[Bambina]

I'd say that if she changed her mind like that, it's probably another girl. If she's feeling like that, don't push her to tell you.

[baabaa]

I think it is a boy then, and she isn't telling because a) she wants to give everyone a great surprise at the end and b) she doesn't want to tell everyone boy just in case the tech was wrong and doesn't want to get hers (and everyone else's) hopes up. How many weeks is she ... Is it an early guess or at 20w?

This is just my thoughts cos that is what I am planning to do. If this bub is another boy I will tell everyone so that I don't get another 20w of 'I hope it's a girl', but if it is a girl I will keep it as a happy little surprise. I can cope with the comments if it is actually a girl!

But this is just my thoughts, and as Bambina suggested, maybe don't push it In case it's because she is disappointed and wants time to process it herself first.

[myGirl]

Bambina and baabaa are both right... by not telling it could still go either way. She could be sad about another girl or she could be wanting to surprise everyone with a boy. When you talked to her how did she sound? any hint of joy or disappointment?

If she was telling everyone beforehand that she was sure it would be a boy, I would guess that she is disappointed.

[Damienne]

Disaponted, that what i tought to hear in het reaction on THE phone, she said: "we found out the gender", not so happy and when i said: "are you diapointed because you sound à little bit sad?" she said: "no, i must be neutral so you wont guess on my mood", exacly after that she became to exited in her taking... En she told me twice à very good 'he', is that a show? Her dh was definitly not over THE moon, THE only thing he said was: " us was good, i believe that i'm not supose to tell the gender"
He wanted to tell he said before..

I missed the smiling faces, my dh was there at home and her dh was not laughing en trilled but i little bit stressed and upset he said... He also didnt invite my dh in for a beer, thats what hè normaly does.

I dont know but this would not be mine reaction on my dreamgender even when i want to keep it a secret, i would smile en be trilled with my whole face en voice i guess,
What about you?

[mis2ninos]

aw it definitely sounds to me that they are going thru disappointment. thats sad. She probably got herself all psyched up this whole time thinking for sure this was a boy, maybe she was having different symptoms...IDK, if I found out I got my DG I would be calling everyone probably the second I walked out the door.

My heart goes out to her.

[Damienne]

Mis2ninos; thats exactly my tought, she is/was convinced about a boy because some old wife tales, en they even talked about there son in public... And dh was happy with 2 girls, she wanted another one, to give him his boy, she decided to get pregnant en she cedeused him the last Ov before she would go to the hospital for steralisation and BAM she had her lucky 'stolen' shot en was pregnant. He was totally flabber guested when he heard the big news...
And in that case i would think that hè would adore en love his wife so happy the whole evening when she is pregnant with his 'whitouthischoise' lovely son, hè would be thankfull i guess... But hè went to watch soccer in à bar with his friends.

Im not ask her about it again, maybe to painfull i guess...

[wilma_five]

I would tell her: "Are you dissapointed? You know you can talk to me about anything you want right? I understand if you want to vent in case there's a little girl on the way!"
Does she knows about your own dissapoinment and that you would love a girl? It's a big taboo you know and maybe she is afraid to "come outside" with it. Maybe she is gonna be really glas when she can talk about it to someone who understands the pain.

[lisvna]

Hmmmm after this I starting to think its probably a girl........

[fivebabies]

I'm thinking its a girl too....