Thread: I fear I'm losing my baby :-(
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July 5th, 2012, 01:40 PM #1
I fear I'm losing my baby :-(
So I didn't chart properly this month so I can't be sure of my O day,I will post the link to my chart,anyways I've spotted since my BFP never really reaching my UW just when I wipe.then today I felt a gush of blood so went to A &E they drew blood and my hcg is only 100 this number worrys me being so low I'm either 20 dpo 17dpo or 14 dpo I honestly do not know for sure but the bleed and this backache I'm having has me freaking out,I'm already convinced I'm losing this baby and I'm devastated.i plan on returning to the hospital for a 2 nd beta tomorrow but I would love any input/advice any of you lovely ladies can offer and please do be honest as I said I don't think this pregnancy will progress much further,this really saddens me. on a plus side my breast are super sore and I'm having waves of nausea so I do have pregnancy symptoms !!
My Ovulation Chart
Just want to add that my confusion isn't helped by the fact that my 6 dpo temp ??? Is nearly the same as my O day temp given the dip,hope I'm making sense I'm feeling rather confused and emotional,Last edited by Just1wish; July 5th, 2012 at 01:43 PM.
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July 5th, 2012, 01:54 PM #2Banned
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Im sorry to hear your experience this. I have no idea what to do because im not an expert with those things. All i wanted to say is hugs!
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July 5th, 2012, 02:09 PM #3
Hugs to you. Please let us know what your beta looks like tomorrow. Your 6 dpo dip might have been implantation?
If it makes you feel better, I always have spotting with my pregnancies, and with my last one, I had a big, big SCH bleed at 10 weeks. It is always scary. Are they checking your progesterone levels as well? HUGS and hang in there!
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July 5th, 2012, 02:11 PM #4IVF Advice Coach
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At 14dpo, 100 is great.
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July 5th, 2012, 02:17 PM #5
I'm sorry you're going through this
Was it fresh or old, brownish blood? My sister had bleeding I think at 9 weeks pg, it turned out it was nothing, she went on to deliver a healthy baby boy.
Shellbell is right, maybe you can get your prog levels checked?
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July 5th, 2012, 02:36 PM #6
Thank you.spotting in pregnancy (for me ) is normal too but today was a gush i will defo update tomorrow.i asked for my prog number and they said being an a&e they don't routinely check this but tomorrow I'm at an early pregnancy unit so I think they will test for prog too.i agree my 6 dpo could be implantation but I'm cautiously thinking maybe that was my Real O date.ive never Od this early in my 30 + months of charting.usually around day 17 of late and my O symptoms didn't match my OPK and supposed O day IYKWIM ! Thanks for the hugs I need it x
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July 5th, 2012, 02:37 PM #7
I really hope I am 14dpo and not 20 dpo KMFX and thank you for your input !
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July 5th, 2012, 02:38 PM #8
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July 5th, 2012, 02:39 PM #9
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July 5th, 2012, 02:40 PM #10
Gushes are awful and scary. My 10 week bleed was a gush, too -- I just knew that I had lost the baby, because it happened in the middle of the night and my bed was absolutely soaked with blood. But that baby is now almost 2. I hope you're 14dpo and that dip was ovulation, too! Keeping my fingers crossed for you.
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