FR and activity questions and is colace ok?

[Alicewonder]

New here and finding This is very interesting. We had a son 3/18/12.
Now, we REALLY would LOVE a Daughter.

We just turned 32, and I've finally got a period! So I'm trying to see what my cycle is but temping is hard due to me jumping up as soon as I hear our son. And I'm a side sleeper and lying on my back on our crazy firm (bought in 05) mattress hurts lol need a topper. Today woke up at 3:37 temp was 95.95 (this morning) after going to bed 1:00 AM cause DH was working late. Ugh it was soo humid too!

Anyway, I was wondering if anyone knew if taking stool
Softener (colace) would hind swaying girl. Currently, heneroids due to hard stools (in probably not drinking enough water) ugh. TMI sorry.

Also, if frequency sways girl should I ask my husband to masterbate everyday? Lol weird but wondering.

Also, is it only the warm months the good months. Was looking at conceiving around the time LO (who turned 14 month old past Saturday ) turns 2 as I had my appendix removed and we're thinking maybe I should heal more?

Oh, and I go for a walks in the morning while pushing DS stroller about once a day maybe. Should I skip this?


Apologises for the run on sentences. I'm on my cell.