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[Waiting4Daisy]

It's so hard to analyse but this little boy was meant to be. Even the most hardcore sways get opposites. When he arrives you will see he is the right fit for your family. Hugs hun, I did much as you described with ttc pink and ended up with ds3 but he is so wonderful I could never regret him in any way

[missmegrn]

Big hugs to you! I am so sorry you are going through this, and you are not alone in your struggle. I have 2 dd's, and although I had gd when I was pg with dd2, I love her to pieces and wouldn't trade her for anything. Your son will be lucky to have a brother close in age. My dd's are the best of friends and I hope they comtinue to be as they grow up.

This is not your fault, if you didn't change, you may not have gotten pg and in order to have a shot at your gd you need to get pg. It sound like this ds is meant to be. I hope that you can work through your feelings so you can enjoy the rest of your pg.

Keep your heart and mind open, who knows you might want a third or you may realize that your family is complete just the way it is.

[Mrsandmama]

I remember finding out my DS2 was a boy and it crushed me so hard inside. I cried in the parking lot of the ultrasound place and my husband just held me for 15 minutes. It took me days to get over the fact that I wasn't having my long desired daughter. BUT once I had him, omg, I realized how much I can't live without him. Seriously, once that bub is born, you wouldn't trade him for a thousand baby girls. You are not alone with your GD mama! We have ALL been there!

[3littleladies]

Swaying can be exhausting I know, I did a really good sway with my third & I still ended up with a girl, which I wouldn't trade in for the world now, I really think we get what we're meant to get, when I was swaying my sister would always say 'why are you wasting your time' I didnt want to listen to her because if I didnt sway then I'd always wonder what if I did??

[GimmeaG]

I totally get how you feel right now. I have been putting off for two weeks to come here to post my failed sway and start a new thread here to vent, I just can't as of yet. My story is VERY similar to yours, except this will be ds3 and last. I was following biorhythms and Chinese calender along with diet, all of atomic's suggestions...and I still failed. It still hurts pretty bad for me, but coming here and reading what these great women here have to say comforts me. I pray you heal soon and just know when you hold your sweet baby you will not regret any part of your sway. Many hugs!

[Adia]

So many things in life make no sense but I would have to say gender desire has to be the most confusing. Why do so many people get their DG without even thinking about it? Why do so many of us try so hard and still have no chance? I don't know, if their is one big mystery in life I wish I could understand this category would be it.

I am sorry. I know you are disappointed but I don't think you should beat yourself up because as others have said, sometime we throw our heart and soul into it and still end up with an opposite. Heck, look at me, I can't even get a bean to stick and I have been pregnant 3 times before with successful pregnancies....who knows?

What I can tell you after being a mom for 14 years is the anguish of the gender of our children starts to fade as they grow. Once they are all in school no one talks about gender any more, its all about "my kids".

So while the pain is raw and real right now, it will ease in time. Once that little baby is here to hold, it will help tremendously and once you see how quickly you, DH, and your DS quickly get to a point where you can't figure out how you lived without that baby, the pain will fade even more.

Big hugs mama, I thought I had a clue about Shettles, etc with DD3 but came to realize my 'boy' methods were the pERFECT girl sway!!