Did not sway but having regrets :(

[Mums]

I have 2 kids,

dd(3.5)
ds(17 mos)

I didn't think I had a preference, but after getting my bfp I am in full on panic mode. Over analyzing every single thing I have done before dtd.

I won't say what my preference is. I want to see what my unintentional sway (if any) favors

The facts:

I am still nursing my son.
My af returned last October

My cycles average 30/31 days

My lmp was 1/29

I had a positive opk January 13 (not sure if it helps determine my cycle length or anything)

I had nice ewcm the week of valentines day. Monday tues being the best days 2/10 2/11?

I recall thinking "too late" by Thursday.

Valentines days came and having 2 littles it's not like we could spontaneously dtd lol

About 1/2am vday night (2/15 technically) we dtd. I was on top for the ending. I was pretty much asleep lol.

Next day I panicked. Looked at calendars and figured we were "too late"

I remember testing opks Saturday and Sunday after dtd to see if I had a pos surge but they were all negative (faint 2nd line)

Positive pink pregnancy internet cheapie on Saturday 3/1

I was complaining about being a cow all of January and February, typical after holidays bulge. My husband said I was still eating as if I had a newborn nurser and never adjusted my eating habits and caloric intake. Even though my son was only nursing 4/5 times a day.

Lots of pepperoni pizza, fast food burgers, Taco Bell steak, diet coke, small chobani kick, lots of baked potatoes, huge ones...I would say daily for a while....got a good deal on them lol....garlic bagels and cream cheese, chocolate chip cookies, slim Jim's, man I'm a pig hahaha

Anyhoo just wondering what you guys think

Thanks

[Rosie85]

I would say you swayed for a boy for the most part. Your diet was very boy friendly. You did however do the one attempt at what seems like would have been +opk which sways girl.

[Rosie85]

Congrats btw!!

[Mums]

Thank you

Now all this time I thought close to o was boy territory?

[NCBeachyGrl]

Congrats! I think you have some boy and girl sway factors but diet looks more boy! You have a 50/50 chance! If it makes you feel any better, I did a full blown, everything but the kitchen sink sway and ended up with an opposite so you just never know!

You just made me really hungry too

[JEWELLE11]

Congrats on your BFP! It could go either way my timing was apparently Boy Territory but then you have ppl like NCBeachygrl who go all out and end up with an opposite and you have those who didn't care and got what they wanted!

All we can do is sway and hope it all worked out! GL

[Abifasc]

I agree, it seems your diet was more boy friendly, but the one attempt sways girl. Lots of ewcm sways boy though. I don't think position matters. Congrats! It could go either way!

I'm guessing you want a girl?

[Mums]

I agree, it seems your diet was more boy friendly, but the one attempt sways girl. Lots of ewcm sways boy though. I don't think position matters. Congrats! It could go either way!

I'm guessing you want a girl?

Actually, I am hoping for a boy lol.

Which is funny because when I was pregnant with my son I was hoping for a girl. lol.

I was soooooo wrong about boys....I was petrified of them....now I am praying for another. lol

I do have longer cycles-- I was hoping dtd the one time assuming it was after o was going to be helpful with swaying boy.

oh well.

[Abifasc]

Actually, I am hoping for a boy lol.

Which is funny because when I was pregnant with my son I was hoping for a girl. lol.

I was soooooo wrong about boys....I was petrified of them....now I am praying for another. lol

I do have longer cycles-- I was hoping dtd the one time assuming it was after o was going to be helpful with swaying boy.

oh well.

I love boys too and having two little boys together is so fun. I think you may have a better chance of a boy than a girl. Keep us updated

[Mulberry Smurf]

I reckon more chance of a boy I love having two boys together xx