my final shot at this...please help

[rac081011]

I am a newbie here and I'm pretty desperate. Within the next 6 months or so I want to conceive my last child. It needs to be a girl!! I have 2 sons currently, and I did have a darling daughter but lost her in the 3rd trimester. I am dying to have a baby girl. I have looked into the Shettles method and it makes sense to me so I will utilize that, but are there any other tips?
I am not into going super obsessive crazy with this. I thought about Benedryl, RepHresh, Shettles, and adding Calcium and Magnesium to my diet, but thats as far as I want to go with this. I dont want to remove the intimacy from it with constant obsessiveness.
My question is the timing of the Benedryl and the timing of the Rephresh. Also, can someone give me an example of a brand of lubricant that is girl friendly?
My girl was conceived with girl on top so I will use that position again...
My first step is to track my temps and pinpoint my ovulation day so I can do a 3 to 4 day cut off prior to ovulation.
Any other suggestions?

[sweetdream]

I'm sorry to say but if you want to try a girl sway with not obsessing we advice a different aproach.

Attempt every 4 days and no tracking O gives you one shot in fertile window wich sways girl and you don't need to obsess over when o occurs.
Leave the supps (sways blue) just folic acid.
Skip breakfast and leave a gap between last meal and breakfast at least 14 hours.
Try to avoid meat

Others Could help and give more advice.
There is a high rate of succes on swaying here.

The things that seemed to sway most are
Dtd ever 4 days
Diet (1600 cal low fat and low proteïne and no breakfast)
Excercise moderate cardio 60 min 5-7 times a week

[rac081011]

So DTD every 4 days UNprotected? And at what cycle day should we start DTD every 4 days on? My cycles are usually 27 to 29 days but not exactly sure when I ovulate so need to figure that out. Im just so afraid that if one of the days falls within 1 or 2 days prior to O that it will be a boy.

[Dana-Alicia]

It doesn't work that way, Shettles has been debunked! There are so many opposites on this method, it just doesn't work. Take your time to read up on swaying on this forum. It's daunting at first as there's a lot of information, but it will start making sense soon enough! Good luck and hope you get your second daughter xx

[sweetdream]

Thats the beauty of it. Timing doesn't sway. But one shot in your fertile window does. If you have unprotected sex every 4 days ONE of those shots will be somewere in your fertile window wich sways girl.
We see in statistics that one shot ups your chances for a girl. With every attempt thats been added we see that rate go down.

I suggest you take your time and read atomics essays. They make so much sence.
I wouldn't be holding my daughter if it wasn't for this site. But I needed time to choose. This site and its different aproach or everything written online wich is old and not proven.
The stuff like shetles and superfoods. Wich there arent.

Hope you get your GD.

[Adia]

I highly recommend a personalized plan from Atomic. She will tailor the Gender Dreaming swaying methods to you personally and provide you a private coaching forum.

I got a plan and my sway worked! Her success rate from personalized plans is very good.

You still have access to all the same info if you don't purchase a plan, but having that individual venting forum where you can freak out privately is very comforting on this roller coaster of swaying.

Best of luck to you!

[pinkin2011]

I had one shot in my fertile window and got my ds2. Please try and do the LE diet if you are desperate for a girl. At least just do the diet and one attempt. I didnt do the diet when i conceived ds2.

[maidentomother]

Diet is by far the biggest sway factor. If you really want a daughter, best to do 12w on the LE diet BEFORE you start TTC (you need time on the diet to send the message to your body to conceive a girl), ideally 60 min daily cardio along with diet, and then once you start TTC, just one attempt at positive OPK. BD every 4 days is next best if OPKs don't work or are too stressful.

Timing, pH, cal/mag and all those old ideas don't sway at all or sway blue. Only GD uses a true scientific approach. Focus on doing the diet properly, ideally vegetarian, low fat and pink friendly fats, skip breakfast or have dinner early so you fast overnight.

I'm so sorry for your late loss and I hope you get another daughter.

[rac081011]

I guess Im just confused how diet can make you conceive a girl. I understand certain foods affecting pH, but the whole idea of making the woman conceive a girl by exercise and lowering calories and skipping breakfast just confuses me. Does it somehow alter the egg to make it more permeable to the XX sperm only? I will look into a plan. I need someone to tell me what to do and when to do it or I'll drive myself nuts. This will be my last baby and I just want a baby girl since I lost my last one so late in pregnancy. I'll start this diet tomorrow because Im looking to lose a little weight anyway. I'm 5'7 and 135 and packed on 10lbs this past year from nursing school!! So I have 6 months to prepare for TTC a baby girl and I will do what I got to.

[sweetdream]

Boys seem to need more glucose to grow. So if the body is low on nutricion and glucose for periods of time the body will send a message its better to accept A xx sperm in stead of xy sperm.