all pink sways happen on DW, how about Dh?

[princessCharlotte]

it seems that dw are trying all methods to sway pink. From diet to exercise, both physical and mental tired. How about Dh? dont they have effect on pink sway since they hold x and y sperms.

sorry, just want to rant! sometimes I find it so injustice and unfair that Im doing so hard to add a pink into our family yet dh takes it so lightly!

[Beau82]

There are some things that DH can do as well but I think the theory is that maternal condition matters most. Some men just aren't willing to change anything and successful sways can still happen in those cases but there are certainly measures DH can take to help things along. Supplements, diet (same as DW), exercise (running and cycling sways pink).

Rant away I haven't gone into too much detail regarding swaying with DH but I have mentioned that I'm changing my diet and he just said "huh, ok". So I get what you mean about him taking things lightly! But when I did start talking about it, he kind of brushed it off and said we just need to try a different position and lower my ph. I know if I try to involve him too much, he'll just throw up his hands and say it's too complicated. So I'm just treading lightly until he full on agrees to try for a fifth.

[atomic sagebrush]

It's your body that has to grow the baby for 9 months, your body that has to breastfeed the baby for 9-18 months (in nature, that is, before the invention of the bottle, this is not a pro-con breastfeeding position just a factual statement about most of human history), and then many times your environment is the one the child is raised in (while men can and sometimes do move on to greener pastures). Thus, women have evolved much stronger biological means of altering the gender ratio than men do.

It has nothing to do with "fairness or justice" it's just a simple fact that mamas matter most.

[atomic sagebrush]

Most husbands don't do anything to help and we still get great results. Mine wouldn't.