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    Taking a break

    Just coming on here to say I am taking a break from swaying... My LP has got even shorter this month (4 days), having been 12 at the start of my sway. I don't know what to do because I can't get femara and my dH is really annoyed at what I've 'done to myself', so I think we are taking a break from swaying and from ttc in general... I really hope to be back here one day and I want to thank everyone who's given me advice and support on this journey over the past 7 months! Thank you!
    Honeybee xxx

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    Hugs hun! I've taken several breaks, so I totally understand. Had some crazy long cycles and crazy short LPs too.

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    currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP

    TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!

    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
    Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic

    Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
    My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period

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    Thanks maiden. Just had one last thought about my crazy LP. Over the winter (when my LP was normal), I was taking a high dose of vitamin c. I stopped pretty suddenly when I started the sway as I discovered it's not good for ttc girl... Could the vitamin c have been keeping my progesterone levels in check or am I grasping at straws?!

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    I"m so sorry, I wish I could be more help.

    We don't know how most of this works anyway, I do sometimes have people add in 500 mg Vit. C daily so go ahead and give it a try (no more than that tho) and then if it helps please let me know!!
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    Atomic (and maiden), you are SO much help! I just feel like I can't handle the monthly disappointment when my period comes earlier and earlier (5dpo this month); I need to get that sorted before I can properly ttc or I will actually crack up! I'm going to add in vit c, swap cardio to daily walking for an hour and eat 3x a day instead of twice and see what happens (without attempting) this month. I will update you in around a month's time xx

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    VitC can't hurt, I don't think it sways blue.

    My Ovulation Chart
    currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP

    TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!

    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
    Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic

    Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
    My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period

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    I just wanted to wish you well honeybee. You have given me some advice and support on here over the past months and I'm sad you've decided to have a break, although completely understand of course hun. I hope your cycles sort themselves out a bit and you find a way through this, especially after all the effort and hard work you've put in.

    My luteal phase is also a mess (although always has been!!) I'm sure I will be in your shoes when we TTC next month. I hope we can both overcome this and manage to achieve the bfp (pink!) we both want!

    Sending big hugs xxx

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    Take care honeybee X Hope to see u back soon .
    All the best hun

    And My Beautiful Daughter
    Thank you Lord & Genderdreaming

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    Quote Originally Posted by maidentomother View Post
    VitC can't hurt, I don't think it sways blue.
    Vit C is more of a theoretical concern and NOT because I"ve seen scads of people getting boys on it (altho I did LOL) Now Vit D and B6, THOSE I have seen people getting boys on, but C is a theoretical one.
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    Well I took a load of vit c last month..: like 600-800mg a day. I don't know if it's a coincidence but I did manage to get pregnant... But unfortunately had a chemical at around 4w. So instead of a 4-5 day LP, it ended up being 14. So I don't know if this counts as a lengthened LP or a pregnancy that couldn't be supported because of low prog..:

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