Please help of anyone is on

[Jamie86]

So DH and I just dtd (weren't suppose to start for a few months but he decided he really wants a baby now). I haven't been doing a ton a girl swaying we did shallow penetratin, ive been working out and I didnt O so should I put rephresh in now after dtd is that ok to do or will it have any effect.

[DoulaMama]

You could coat your finger in Rephresh and just put that in there. I'm not sure I would put the whole tube in...just my 2 cents did you jump and dump? How long ago was your attempt? I ask because I think it only takes 20 mins to reach the cervix.

[Jamie86]

It was probably about 20mins ago but I did just put a little in there. Who knows what's going to happen because I know some don't put a lot into timing but I got a positive OPK yesterday and one that looked also positive but lighter than yesterday's the day before so I think if I am fertile that would put me in "boy time" but I might not even be fertile it was a very last minute decision.

[DoulaMama]

After seeing so many opposites on the TTC boy threads, I honestly can't say that I really believe swaying works for everyone. Some yes, but I think it's very much just luck. I hope you get your daughter!!! FX'd for a PINK BFP in a couple weeks!!

[Jamie86]

Thanks so much! This is definitely not our last so if I happen to get a BFP I will be happy either way (as i know most of us would) but I would love a daughter.

[Cinss]

Good luck

[Jamie86]

I'm feeling a little nervous this morning wondering if that was the right decision, I've been holding off my DH for a little bit on TTC but last night he was just so very convincing about how much he wants another baby and who can resist that? But I'm really not sure what's going on because I got a seemingly (sometimes they are hard to read to me) positive OPK Sunday but it looked a little darker Tuesday and equally as dark this morning so I really don't know how to tell what that means for ovulation. I haven't been charting temps or anything because we weren't suppose to start TTC until January or February.

[nuthinbutpink]

Jamie, you have a 50/50 chance going into it and if this month isn't your month, I would start implementing your sway now so you can go for even better odds!

Try not to stress. What's done is done and your DH sounds like he is 110% on board so that is wonderful!

[Out of the Blue]

Jamie, sending you lots of ........

[Jamie86]

Thanks so much everyone I'm feeling a strange feeling of kind of hoping I'm pregnant mainly because i can become obsessive over things and I don't want to feel really guilty like I did something wrong if I don't get my girl after a ton of work but then also hoping I'm not so I can do a few more sway techniques. But I did in the last couple of weeks go from nothing to jogging/walking a little over 6 miles each week and although I haven't been avoiding protein I've been eating less and keeping carbohydrates to a minimum but I don't know if i did either of those things long enough to make a difference. But I've also been studying for my CPA exam (took the last section today) so that's a lot of stress.

Anyway I think it's probably me over thinking something that doesn't really matter because I got my first positive OPK on Sunday, although it's still positive today so I'm a little unsure as to what that means.