help..time sensitive, acijel help? PLEASE!!!

[SweetLily]

Hey girls. Some of you may know me as toddsweezie from IG way back. I dont post here often.

DH and I...while heavily medicated (me) dtd 2 days ago and we used NO bc at all. I will O tomorrow i think, or sunday if I am really lucky. We do want to sway girl WHEN we ttc, but it isn't now,I am going through mental health issues (lol, just told the entire fam I am NEVER having another child...) so this evening I added half a tube of acijel. i only have one ph ion strip left to test with, but will that much acijel kill any sperm that may have survived the 2 days? I am HSO with W cm right now, I have not had EW for a few months.

I CAN'T get pregnant right now, I just had a friggin nervous breakdown and am off my rocker! Preganncy will make everything worse. Or, that said...if the acijel ISN'T going to kill the sperm off, should I just get dh to go for a full on attempt? I may not O til sunday....that would put me back into BOY territory but then if I O tomorrow and we only dtd tonight would that be too soon anyway?

help, I just don't know what to do...if we have another, we both really want a girl...I will go test my ph right now....it is less than 4.5 which is as low as it reads, so i am guessing its at 4 cause it looks 1 shade lighter.

as for tother sway factors, i got girl everything right, no ewcm ever anymore, stressed out of my mind, lost 15 lbs this last 6 weeks, barely ever eat...pretty set on that ground at least. any thoughts?

IDK if I could get DH to jump on board to go dtd with the hope of makinga girl anyway....

thanks ladies! I appreciate your advice even though I don't regularly post here!

[atomic sagebrush]

I'm sorry, but if you BD 2 days ago and only added acijel this evening, the sperm in question was most likely already gone out of reach of the acijel. It is irrelevant what your pH is now (I know this is not the advice they give on IG but giving it to you straight here) because your entire uterus and fallopian tubes (which is where the fertilization takes place) is churning out massive quantities of EWCM and the stuff you put into your vag just doesn't go up there and affect that, any more than if you gargle with baking soda and spit it out, you can change the pH of your stomach acid. Don't even bother using up your last pH stick, it doesn't matter at this point.

You ahve every chance at a girl even without swaying you know. If you DTD medicated, that's going to sway pink and it sounds like you had a little bit of a cut off too. You lost weight, not much EWCM, etc. Plus, just by virtue of having a "sneak attack" attempt, that means your T levels are lower than if you got all fired up over swaying. A LOT of gals have failed sways and swear they're never TTC again only to have an accident that's a girl even after 4 and 5 boys.

Personally, if now is not a good time to TTC, I would do nothing and pray. To decide suddenly to have an attempt with no time on diet or anything and rely totally on Acijel...that is NOT A GOOD SWAY. I would totally leave it right where you're at and just hold steady in the knowledge that you're prob. not pg anyway and if you are, that's actually not too shabby of a sway. GL.