Thread: Oh dear... did I do this wrong?
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June 2nd, 2011, 08:40 PM #1Moderator
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Oh dear... did I do this wrong?
I thought the term cut off meant the days you get hubby to abstain is this not right?
My hubby last dtd on cd 9 (in the evening) he abstained for 4 days and we bd'ed on cd 13 and ovulation either happened soon after or up to 24 hours later.
I thought this is what we were meant to do? Best to get hubby to hold off for 2-4 days with day 4 being the better one, and to time intercourse as close to or just before Ovulation??
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June 2nd, 2011, 09:42 PM #2Dream Vet
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Or does cut off mean the amount days before ovulation that you DTD?
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June 2nd, 2011, 10:18 PM #3
You are both right I think. It means the same thing doesn't it? You obstain for 4 days before your attempt therefore you have a 4 day cut off. That's how I interpret it. How come you are questioning it TTC5? I think your sway was fantastic, I hope mine is as good as yours!
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June 2nd, 2011, 10:47 PM #4
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June 2nd, 2011, 11:06 PM #5Moderator
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I was talking to another lady online and she seems to think that I have done it wrong?
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June 2nd, 2011, 11:54 PM #6
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June 3rd, 2011, 12:00 AM #7
TTC5 ITA with everyone here ... 4 day cut off means no sex (or release for him) for 4 days prior to BD. I'm wondering what Bec is too ... what did this other person say you did wrong? Because I think your timing was great!
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June 3rd, 2011, 12:52 AM #8Moderator
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Thanks guys, apparently a cut off means having sex (baby dancing sex lol) 4 days prior to ovulation and then nothing... well this person reckons if I made him hold off for 4 days I have increased the female sperm? :S
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June 3rd, 2011, 01:32 AM #9Dream Vet
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Yeah i thought cut off meant having sex too but that could be wrong. Like 4 day cut off meant DTD 4 days before O and that's it.....hmm we need to find out for sure!
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June 3rd, 2011, 01:34 AM #10Moderator
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We do don't we.. wheres atomic when we need her
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