Negative OPK, no more EWCM and when to BD?

[BeckMom89]

Hello everyone,

I'm on cycle day 13 and still no positive OPK. As of today I have no more EWCM. Did I miss my surge? I tested 2x a day. Last month it was CD12. DH and I BD Tuesday at 3am, Wednesday at 11pm and plan on BD tonight or early morning. Are we dtd enough? Our schedules suck but when we are together we are Bding.

[maidentomother]

You aren't temping by any chance, are you? It is possible for fertile CM to come and go even multiple times before you actually O. It's also possible to O days after your CM has dried up. I'd trust the OPKs bc they are much more reliable than CM for determining O. How close to positive were your latest ones?

[atomic sagebrush]

OPK are more reliable than CM but not perfect either.

I would just keep having regular unprotected sex whenever you can - remember that's how people got pregnant before all this technology!

[BeckMom89]

Thanks ladies. We only dtd Tuesday, Wednesday and today. Our schedules sucked so bad this week. I had an abundunt amount of EWCM on Tuesday and Wednesday and nothing today. We used preseed for all attempts but we are upset about so few bds. I am super dry today. it's depressing our first TTC a boy try and no positive Opk and 2 good tries the entire week.