Thread: When to BD? OPK or peak ewcm
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October 1st, 2014, 05:39 PM #1
When to BD? OPK or peak ewcm
Hi,
My O is delayed a few days this month. I had a negative opk (digi) today and yesterday. Yesterday I had copious amounts of ewcm- 4 inches long, clear and strong so we dtd. Today I have a little ewcm- clear and long, but only found at the cervix. I am afraid that my O is going to come faster and tomorrow. Should we bd tonight or wait until the morning until I get a positive opk? I usually O at cd13, but today is cd14 and temps are still low. I want to get in 3x but of course my body doesn't cooperate.TTC Blue!
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October 2nd, 2014, 08:59 AM #2
More attempts= More boys! Good luck!
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October 2nd, 2014, 11:13 AM #4
Ok! We dtd last night, digi smiley this morning, of course. So, I'll try to fit in a bd tonight. I thought it was 3x within the +opk, but honestly, I don't think my DH could pull that off with his back issues (which are mostly resolved, but we don't want to re-injure!)
TTC Blue!
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October 2nd, 2014, 03:17 PM #5
Good luck!
Proud mom of 3 lovely young ladies praying and swaying for a
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October 2nd, 2014, 03:29 PM #6
Thanks Jana! This is my third time to sway- first an opposite for a ingender sway, and then a miscarriage after a GD HE sway. I get a bit more relaxed after every sway- mostly because I just love the kids that I got in the process.
TTC Blue!
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October 2nd, 2014, 03:56 PM #7
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October 2nd, 2014, 05:00 PM #8
There's something wonderful about having lots of little girls. I love it too. I hope this is your chance to have a boy!
Proud mom of 3 lovely young ladies praying and swaying for a
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October 2nd, 2014, 05:15 PM #9
Thanks! I think if I had only one gender, girl does work for me. But, a boy to balance things out would be great. For my first daughter, I had no ewcm after coming off of bcp and thought dairy and fat and meat was bad for hormones. So there goes the perfect girl sway.
Second daughter, even eating all of that crap- potato chips and juice, I still managed to lose weight on the IG diet and conceived dd2. Timing and ewcm were good though.
For the m/c sway cycle I gained 8 pounds and tried to keep up with higher protein and calories so I didn't lose weight drastically. I don't know if I have gained much swaying this time or not- maybe a few pounds on top of the weight I gained from the other sway. (which I might have lost 2 or so pounds in between the mc and now).
I am just so thankful for my beautiful happy girls.TTC Blue!
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October 3rd, 2014, 07:30 PM #10
I feel the same way. I wanted DD1 to be a girl so bad! I got my desired gender! I didn't have a gender preference with my other 2 girls. I had strong feelings that they were girls though. This will be the only child where I would slightly prefer a boy but if it doesn't happen, I'm fine with that too. I just want the experience of raising a son. Another daughter wouldn't ever feel unlucky to me. I'd just know that that's what I was meant to have.
There's been so many successful boy sways lately that I think your chances are pretty good! Keep me posted!Proud mom of 3 lovely young ladies praying and swaying for a
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