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May 29th, 2019, 02:27 PM
#41
Dreamer
Originally Posted by
Jazmin
Oh really? Yeah I always look back and wonder what are the things I didn’t do or did to favour. I also get these fear and feeling like you said.. maybe I am just a mom for girls only... but reading atomic reply makes me feel good.
Also read about preseed , good to know thanks atomic.
I have also heard about pregnacare favour boys- any thoughts? Sorry maybe i am repeating questions already answered
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Ameen. prayers for you to get a healthy baby boy. Love to be here and talk with people with same desire.
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yess same here
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May 31st, 2019, 11:27 PM
#42
Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
Oh yes absolutely - having hubby do regular release every 2-4 days is very important for blue.
And we have reason to believe that the more exposure you have to the hormones in his semen, the more blue friendly. Some people choose not to do this because it doesn't match Shettles timing, but if you take care not to have that sex during the fertile window you can have the best of both worlds - if you want Shettles timing (which does not work, but of course you're welcome to do it if you like) you just have the unprotected sex when you're not fertile.
Yes I'd try to stay laying down 15-30 min. after intercourse if you possibly can. Some believe a shower around the time you had sex makes "ions" that could possibly sway pink. I personally don't believe this but it can definitely wash away the semen and some sperm which would also sway pink.
Thanks so much for sharing your experience!
Thanks atomic.
So regular unprotected sex is blue friendly and it doesn’t really matter if it was around ovulation or on ovulation time? This Shettles timing is stuck in brain as it was the first thing I read and comes up everywhere on google! I do feel regular release is the way to go but ovulation timing is still stuck there in my head.
Omg- that’s so good to know! About the waiting and shower. I will
Make a note of this .. thanks you xx
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May 31st, 2019, 11:32 PM
#43
Ramadan and the HE diet
Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
No it's fine I'm happy to answer as many questions as you have. I really want everyone to get their desired gender and it' very hard to find information about every small detail online.
I HATE Pregnacare. It is one of my least favorite vitamins on the market. (I also hate Wellman's so please do not give that to your husband) The Pregnacare products have massive megadoses of nutrients in it, some of which can delay or even stop ovulation, and most of them also have other herbal ingredients which may sway pink and also delay or even stop ovulation.
Ohh I see. Thanks so much atomic. I will look into supplements more when closer to ttc.
I started reading threads here and will make notes. Currently not ready to try so soon .. .. have a fear inside me .but I will be.. meantime i will be around here to read and learn more.
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June 1st, 2019, 08:36 PM
#44
Swaying Advice Coach
Originally Posted by
Jazmin
Thanks atomic.
So regular unprotected sex is blue friendly and it doesn’t really matter if it was around ovulation or on ovulation time? This Shettles timing is stuck in brain as it was the first thing I read and comes up everywhere on google! I do feel regular release is the way to go but ovulation timing is still stuck there in my head.
Omg- that’s so good to know! About the waiting and shower. I will
Make a note of this .. thanks you xx
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That's what we believe based on theory and a study that showed lots of unprotected sex boosted fertility greatly. We dont' have the resources to test it yet.
Dr. Shettles died I think in 2000 and he was like 100 years old when he did. He hadn't done science for decades before. His theory when tested with modern technology has been totally debunked - timing hasn't changed gender ratios, and X and Y sperm are about the same size, swim the same speed, and live equally as long. But all that having been said if you really just can't give it up, it's ok, do the regular release with the 3 attempts at positive OPK (that's why I came up with that method, to help blue swayers who really still wanted Shettles.)
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June 1st, 2019, 08:36 PM
#45
Swaying Advice Coach
Originally Posted by
Jazmin
Ohh I see. Thanks so much atomic. I will look into supplements more when closer to ttc.
I started reading threads here and will make notes. Currently not ready to try so soon .. .. have a fear inside me .but I will be.. meantime i will be around here to read and learn more.
Ok! Whenever you have questions I am here to help!
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June 4th, 2019, 12:50 PM
#46
Dreamer
Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
Ok! Whenever you have questions I am here to help!
Eid Mubarak to Everyone May Allah Bless you All AmeenIMG-20190604-WA0027.jpg
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June 4th, 2019, 04:04 PM
#47
Eid Mubarak to y'all.
May Allah fulfill all our wishes.. Aameen
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June 5th, 2019, 08:59 AM
#48
Ramadan and the HE diet
Originally Posted by
TA Sait
Eid Mubarak to y'all.
May Allah fulfill all our wishes.. Aameen
Eid Mubarak to all.
Aameen
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June 17th, 2019, 07:52 AM
#49
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AF started again today, and it came at exactly 8:30 in the morning! This cycle I was a couple of days late and thought it might be a bfp, even though I was careful with the unprotected timing but almost bought a pregnancy test, glad AF is here now though! It’s been 2 weeks since my last fast, and I’m back on the HE diet big time. During fasting my period started in the afternoon (first time ever in over a year), this time it was morning but not super early morning like it normally was before ramadan. Will keep updated on my next cycle!
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June 17th, 2019, 01:40 PM
#50
Swaying Advice Coach
Great! Let me know if you have any questions!!
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