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October 22nd, 2021, 11:10 AM
#181
Swaying Advice Coach
You can skip 12 or 13, it doesn't matter which one, because it depends on when you ovulated and we can't know that now. Or you could go for both, I know we were worried it might have cut odds of conception, though. this is just one of those 'crystal ball' questions I can't know the answer to unfortunately.
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October 22nd, 2021, 02:55 PM
#182
I know and sorry... I say to myself I wont get stressed about this all then it always happens closer to attempts.
I didnt get postive opk either so didnt bed today maybe tomorrow.
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October 23rd, 2021, 02:30 PM
#183
Hi...
So far only attempted cd 9 and havent since was hoping for today cd12 but dont think it will happen. Will try again cd13, 4 and 15.. will this leave me with one attempt on the cd 9?? Worried
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October 24th, 2021, 02:46 PM
#184
Swaying Advice Coach
I'm thinking, that whenever you CAN BD, you should go for it to avoid these kinds of scenarios. Like, let's say you had a chance on CD 11 and skipped it because you didn't think it was optimal, then CD 12 something comes up. Let's just go for it when possible to compensate for the days when things don't go according to plan.
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October 25th, 2021, 08:56 AM
#185
Yes I understand thank you.
So I did bed yesterday Cd13. I'm guessing ovalution was on cd12 after looking at opk.. what do you think. Cd14 today looking more faint then cd12 and 13.... was aiming to attempt today anyway and tomorrow.
What are the chance that it worked based on cd9 and ovalution on cd12 that would only give me one attempt. Feel like really messed this one up.
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Last edited by Kerry45; October 25th, 2021 at 10:07 AM.
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October 25th, 2021, 11:59 AM
#186
Swaying Advice Coach
You can't tell when you've ovulated on the basis of OPK - you can have the test going negative and still have yet to ovulate. The surge happens as many as 2-3 days sooner than ovulation and the test can go negative in the meantime. Plus, for all we know you haven 't ovulated yet and you'll get another positive tomorrow.
It's very very unlikely that you conceived from sex on CD 9 with a CD 12 ovulation. In most cases you won't have the right environment as early as CD 9 anyway.
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October 25th, 2021, 02:32 PM
#187
Ok... but on cd 12 I was feeling really unwell alday lower back pain cramping on and off it lasted till the night. with the positive opk I thought this must be ovalution. The next morning I was fine.
I will still attempt tonight CD 14 and tomorrow to give it the best chance. Then every other day. Hope I didnt mess up by sway.
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October 25th, 2021, 03:19 PM
#188
Swaying Advice Coach
But you can have O pain before, during, and after ovulation. It's not unusual to have really bad O pain a day or two before O happens that goes away before or right after O has occurred. O pain is not a perfect way of pinning down ovulation.
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October 26th, 2021, 06:43 AM
#189
Ok thanks for that.
So we did bed yesterday evening cd14.. did opk am and was like yesterday's test. Will hope to bed tonight too.
Would you say you dont think I have ovaluted yet?? Which I know it's very difficult to say.
Also dont feel like I have much mucus think I have mentioned this before aswell. Why would this be as I thought the diet and supplements make more??
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October 26th, 2021, 11:25 AM
#190
Tested again today afternoon was slightly darker then the morning test..could be O is coming so will try get tonight's attempt and hopefully another tomorrow.
How does that sound??
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