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    abstinence

    My hubby is on day 7...I think he may die!
    I feel so bad for him, is this normal?
    Ugh...he is being a sport but I dont know if he can do this again if we dont fall preggo this month.

    Any suggestions?

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    I'm in the same boat... DH has very high sex drive? How many attempts you doing? We trying two this month and one didnt work last month... So once day BEFORE positive opk after abstinence and then DH releasing and another attempt on positive opk shortly after releasing...

    I couldn't handle the stress of keeping ph down with regular bd
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    omg...same here...he looks at me and he is ready...oh lord!
    We are going to try one time at +opk.
    Maybe I should try what you are doing...we are also doing rephresh and acijel before bding.
    I would love to hear some other things you are planning on doing.

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    I'm doing fingertip aci from end of af with last application 2 hours before bd... I'm not going to jump and dump this time for first attempt... But will with second attempt.. Will prob pop a Zyrtec too if ewcm present 6 hours before... Also the hot bath for DH and hot shower for me before BD and I'm also exercising at least 1/2 hour run a day...
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